1 00:02:36,472 --> 00:02:37,373 I've got this. 2 00:02:42,109 --> 00:02:43,245 I've got this. 3 00:02:43,312 --> 00:02:44,812 Yeah. 4 00:02:44,911 --> 00:02:45,812 I know. 5 00:02:48,716 --> 00:02:50,949 Well, don't just stand there and watch. 6 00:02:51,083 --> 00:02:52,752 Go fucking do something. 7 00:03:06,963 --> 00:03:08,831 Oh, please. 8 00:03:08,931 --> 00:03:09,399 Off. 9 00:03:11,067 --> 00:03:11,967 On my mind. 10 00:03:12,101 --> 00:03:16,137 Why do I keep wasting my time? 11 00:03:16,272 --> 00:03:19,475 Man, you make it easy for me. 12 00:03:19,608 --> 00:03:24,011 So why can't I make you love me, love me. 13 00:03:26,448 --> 00:03:30,351 Oh god, It's the snapping. 14 00:03:30,451 --> 00:03:31,151 Come on. 15 00:03:31,285 --> 00:03:32,085 No. 16 00:03:32,152 --> 00:03:33,619 You know you love it. 17 00:03:36,155 --> 00:03:39,624 Why can't I make you love me? 18 00:03:48,965 --> 00:03:50,966 Are we too early? 19 00:03:52,101 --> 00:03:53,303 Michael! 20 00:03:53,436 --> 00:03:54,304 What? 21 00:03:54,437 --> 00:03:55,871 We're not going to a party. 22 00:03:57,806 --> 00:03:58,207 Hey! 23 00:03:58,307 --> 00:04:00,142 Hi! 24 00:04:03,043 --> 00:04:03,644 OK. 25 00:04:03,778 --> 00:04:04,312 Let's go. 26 00:04:04,379 --> 00:04:05,045 Are we too early? 27 00:04:05,146 --> 00:04:05,813 Oh, no. 28 00:04:05,946 --> 00:04:06,814 Of course not. 29 00:04:06,880 --> 00:04:08,149 There's no such thing as too early. 30 00:04:08,282 --> 00:04:08,981 - You're perfect. - We just flew here. 31 00:04:09,115 --> 00:04:09,882 Michael. 32 00:04:09,982 --> 00:04:10,617 Roads were wide open. 33 00:04:10,684 --> 00:04:11,685 Good to see you, Paul. 34 00:04:11,818 --> 00:04:12,285 Hi, honey. 35 00:04:12,352 --> 00:04:13,018 Hi, Jon. 36 00:04:13,153 --> 00:04:15,954 Hey, Grandpa. 37 00:04:16,020 --> 00:04:16,655 Thank you. 38 00:04:16,789 --> 00:04:17,156 Hi, Dad. 39 00:04:17,289 --> 00:04:18,056 Hey. 40 00:04:18,157 --> 00:04:19,023 Hello, how you doing? 41 00:04:19,158 --> 00:04:19,991 Good, you? 42 00:04:20,058 --> 00:04:20,693 How are you doing? 43 00:04:20,825 --> 00:04:21,159 Good. 44 00:04:21,292 --> 00:04:22,059 OK, good. 45 00:04:22,160 --> 00:04:22,960 Yeah. 46 00:04:23,026 --> 00:04:24,396 Uh, Michael, you... 47 00:04:24,496 --> 00:04:25,497 - you want to get the... - Yeah, no. 48 00:04:25,563 --> 00:04:26,664 I'll get it. I'll get it. 49 00:04:26,797 --> 00:04:27,831 - I got you a little something. - Aw. 50 00:04:27,964 --> 00:04:28,832 - Really, it's nothing. - Sweetie... 51 00:04:28,898 --> 00:04:30,032 It's nothing. 52 00:04:30,167 --> 00:04:31,635 It's just... it's just a little something, you know. 53 00:04:36,037 --> 00:04:37,407 We didn't really know... 54 00:04:37,507 --> 00:04:40,040 Well, I can't wait to see what the stores recommend 55 00:04:40,175 --> 00:04:41,243 for an event like this. 56 00:04:52,352 --> 00:04:53,051 All right. 57 00:04:53,186 --> 00:04:53,986 Let's see. 58 00:04:54,052 --> 00:04:55,221 What is this? 59 00:04:55,355 --> 00:04:56,556 Come on, let me help with... 60 00:04:56,689 --> 00:04:57,856 - let me just... - No, I don't... 61 00:04:57,989 --> 00:04:59,224 Jonathan, you wanna hand me the scissors? 62 00:04:59,358 --> 00:05:00,159 I said I have it. 63 00:05:00,225 --> 00:05:01,025 It's fine. 64 00:05:01,092 --> 00:05:02,194 It's fine. 65 00:05:02,261 --> 00:05:03,227 It's fine, guys. 66 00:05:03,361 --> 00:05:05,028 There we go. 67 00:05:05,163 --> 00:05:06,364 Oh. 68 00:05:06,497 --> 00:05:07,865 Salt and pepper shakers. 69 00:05:07,931 --> 00:05:08,499 Look at that. 70 00:05:08,566 --> 00:05:10,700 How sweet is this? 71 00:05:10,834 --> 00:05:15,237 Look, it's you and me, and we're dancing. 72 00:05:15,371 --> 00:05:16,872 We had this whole back and forth about... 73 00:05:16,938 --> 00:05:17,373 Look at that. 74 00:05:17,506 --> 00:05:18,973 That's so cute. 75 00:05:19,073 --> 00:05:20,842 Now you can think of me whenever you put salt on your wounds. 76 00:05:20,909 --> 00:05:21,376 Or pepper. 77 00:05:21,443 --> 00:05:22,377 Or... or pepper. 78 00:05:22,444 --> 00:05:23,110 Or both. 79 00:05:23,211 --> 00:05:23,845 Thank you, Jen. 80 00:05:23,912 --> 00:05:24,579 Oh. 81 00:05:24,712 --> 00:05:25,380 That was very thoughtful. 82 00:05:25,447 --> 00:05:26,347 Someone's here. 83 00:05:27,247 --> 00:05:28,348 OK. 84 00:05:28,415 --> 00:05:29,216 Yeah. 85 00:05:29,283 --> 00:05:30,417 That's... all right. 86 00:05:30,551 --> 00:05:33,952 So your beds are all made up and ready. 87 00:05:34,052 --> 00:05:34,420 Perfect. 88 00:05:34,554 --> 00:05:35,254 It's Liz. 89 00:05:35,388 --> 00:05:36,054 Jonathan. 90 00:05:36,189 --> 00:05:37,523 Oh, great. 91 00:05:37,590 --> 00:05:39,056 Look what Jennifer made. 92 00:05:39,191 --> 00:05:41,126 Jennifer, you made this cake? 93 00:05:41,226 --> 00:05:42,194 Look at this. 94 00:05:42,260 --> 00:05:43,228 It's the size of a human head. 95 00:05:43,361 --> 00:05:44,463 This could feed a village, yes. 96 00:05:44,563 --> 00:05:46,029 Oh, thanks, darling. 97 00:05:46,095 --> 00:05:46,797 OK. 98 00:05:46,897 --> 00:05:47,531 OK. 99 00:06:03,076 --> 00:06:04,779 Why is she here? 100 00:06:04,912 --> 00:06:07,915 Oh, I know. 101 00:06:07,981 --> 00:06:09,982 I told Dad it should just be family. 102 00:06:14,454 --> 00:06:16,422 Salt and pepper shakers. 103 00:06:16,555 --> 00:06:18,624 What was I thinking? 104 00:06:18,757 --> 00:06:20,925 I think she liked them. 105 00:06:20,991 --> 00:06:22,760 She pretended to. 106 00:06:22,894 --> 00:06:25,296 She never pretends well enough. 107 00:06:25,363 --> 00:06:26,930 What does that mean? 108 00:06:26,996 --> 00:06:29,933 She lies just badly enough so you know she's lying. 109 00:06:29,999 --> 00:06:31,100 Oh, come on. 110 00:06:31,235 --> 00:06:33,135 I really think she liked them. 111 00:06:33,269 --> 00:06:34,770 I do. 112 00:06:34,837 --> 00:06:36,305 Besides, it's like she said. 113 00:06:36,439 --> 00:06:39,741 It's not like there's a perfect gift for this kind of thing. 114 00:06:43,345 --> 00:06:47,615 They're probably from Kenya or Peru or somewhere. 115 00:06:47,681 --> 00:06:49,950 Can you imagine the carbon footprint? 116 00:06:50,083 --> 00:06:53,453 Carbon footprint and all, I thank you. 117 00:06:53,520 --> 00:06:54,120 Hi. 118 00:06:54,187 --> 00:06:54,954 Hi, Liz. 119 00:06:55,020 --> 00:06:55,421 Hi. 120 00:06:55,488 --> 00:06:56,155 Hey, Jen. 121 00:06:56,289 --> 00:06:57,122 You look great. 122 00:06:57,256 --> 00:06:58,123 Wow, your hair looks great 123 00:06:58,190 --> 00:06:59,056 Thanks. 124 00:06:59,157 --> 00:06:59,992 Hi, Michael. 125 00:07:00,125 --> 00:07:00,692 It really does. 126 00:07:00,792 --> 00:07:01,527 Hi, Liz. 127 00:07:01,627 --> 00:07:02,528 Jonathan. 128 00:07:02,627 --> 00:07:04,128 Look at you. 129 00:07:04,195 --> 00:07:05,630 He's a great student. 130 00:07:05,696 --> 00:07:06,797 Straight A's. 131 00:07:06,931 --> 00:07:07,798 One B. 132 00:07:07,932 --> 00:07:10,500 Mom. 133 00:07:10,634 --> 00:07:11,968 Thanks for coming, Liz. 134 00:07:12,101 --> 00:07:13,336 Sure. 135 00:07:13,470 --> 00:07:15,471 I know it really means a lot to Mom that we all do this. 136 00:07:15,538 --> 00:07:18,507 Yeah, it does. 137 00:07:18,641 --> 00:07:19,808 It's a privilege. 138 00:07:23,311 --> 00:07:26,447 Anything we can do? 139 00:07:26,514 --> 00:07:27,981 Here's an interesting article. 140 00:07:28,047 --> 00:07:32,552 The local Annual Thanksgiving Deep-Fried Turkey Festival 141 00:07:32,652 --> 00:07:34,353 apparently is going vegan. 142 00:07:34,487 --> 00:07:37,557 Unbelievable. 143 00:07:50,667 --> 00:07:53,002 They're pretty. 144 00:07:53,068 --> 00:07:53,503 Mhm. 145 00:07:53,570 --> 00:07:55,738 Mm. 146 00:07:55,838 --> 00:07:59,073 Your mother always had a thing for white tulips. 147 00:07:59,174 --> 00:08:02,076 Always the white ones, even in college. 148 00:08:07,982 --> 00:08:08,682 Mhm. 149 00:08:08,748 --> 00:08:09,816 What's she doing? 150 00:08:09,883 --> 00:08:11,351 She'll be right down. 151 00:08:11,484 --> 00:08:12,352 Oh, what if she needs help? 152 00:08:12,419 --> 00:08:13,219 She's fine. 153 00:08:13,353 --> 00:08:14,753 She's fine, Jennifer. 154 00:08:14,853 --> 00:08:18,257 Whatever she's doing, she'd rather do it herself. 155 00:08:21,326 --> 00:08:23,161 Good. 156 00:08:29,533 --> 00:08:30,901 Is everybody OK? 157 00:08:31,034 --> 00:08:31,568 Good. 158 00:08:31,702 --> 00:08:32,369 Everybody is fine. 159 00:08:32,436 --> 00:08:33,202 We're all fine. 160 00:08:33,336 --> 00:08:33,903 We're doing great. 161 00:08:34,036 --> 00:08:35,104 Jonathan? 162 00:08:35,204 --> 00:08:36,205 Uh-huh. 163 00:08:36,339 --> 00:08:38,174 Jonathan has a hard time talking about it. 164 00:08:38,240 --> 00:08:40,408 No, I don't. 165 00:08:40,542 --> 00:08:41,576 When's it happening? 166 00:08:41,710 --> 00:08:43,945 Soon, kiddo. 167 00:08:44,045 --> 00:08:46,580 Oh, hello. 168 00:08:46,714 --> 00:08:48,949 The flowers look beautiful. 169 00:08:53,419 --> 00:08:54,554 So no one's drinking coffee? 170 00:08:54,621 --> 00:08:55,388 Oh, let me... 171 00:08:55,521 --> 00:08:56,356 I... I can get that. 172 00:08:56,422 --> 00:08:57,090 That's... 173 00:08:57,222 --> 00:08:57,556 I'd love some. 174 00:08:57,623 --> 00:08:58,290 Yeah? 175 00:08:58,390 --> 00:08:59,391 Please, here. 176 00:08:59,524 --> 00:09:00,425 There you go. 177 00:09:00,559 --> 00:09:01,259 Mom? 178 00:09:01,393 --> 00:09:02,060 Do you want some? 179 00:09:02,127 --> 00:09:02,460 No, I'm good. 180 00:09:02,560 --> 00:09:03,227 Dad? 181 00:09:03,361 --> 00:09:04,562 No, I'm fine. 182 00:09:04,629 --> 00:09:05,262 Liz? 183 00:09:05,396 --> 00:09:08,132 Mm, please. 184 00:09:08,232 --> 00:09:08,898 Cream? 185 00:09:08,965 --> 00:09:10,233 Yeah. 186 00:09:10,300 --> 00:09:11,568 There you go. 187 00:09:11,701 --> 00:09:14,070 Thanks. 188 00:09:14,204 --> 00:09:15,070 There you go. 189 00:09:18,073 --> 00:09:19,241 There you go. 190 00:09:33,719 --> 00:09:37,323 Should someone call her? 191 00:09:37,423 --> 00:09:38,257 I'm sure she's on her way. 192 00:09:49,733 --> 00:09:51,934 She made that? 193 00:09:52,001 --> 00:09:52,402 Wow. 194 00:09:56,772 --> 00:09:58,306 Are you sure that's a good idea? 195 00:10:15,187 --> 00:10:16,188 Hey! 196 00:10:16,288 --> 00:10:17,356 Oh, Chris. 197 00:10:17,456 --> 00:10:18,590 Hey. 198 00:10:18,657 --> 00:10:19,992 Didn't know you were... good to see you. 199 00:10:20,126 --> 00:10:22,627 Chris, I'm so happy that you came. 200 00:10:22,694 --> 00:10:23,494 Oh. 201 00:10:23,628 --> 00:10:24,295 Are you kidding? 202 00:10:24,362 --> 00:10:25,530 Of course I did. 203 00:10:25,630 --> 00:10:26,697 Now I have someone to get drunk with. 204 00:10:26,797 --> 00:10:27,764 I love where this is heading. 205 00:10:27,831 --> 00:10:28,765 Jesus, look at you. 206 00:10:28,832 --> 00:10:29,499 Hi, sweetie. 207 00:10:29,633 --> 00:10:30,467 Hey, Mom. 208 00:10:30,600 --> 00:10:31,702 Oh. 209 00:10:31,802 --> 00:10:33,002 You're not a pimply kid anymore. 210 00:10:33,136 --> 00:10:35,371 Hey, I'm a pimply teenager now. 211 00:10:35,471 --> 00:10:36,139 Hey. 212 00:10:36,205 --> 00:10:36,939 Hey. 213 00:10:37,006 --> 00:10:37,840 - I'm Chris. - Oh... 214 00:10:37,973 --> 00:10:38,673 Oh, OK. I'll take that. 215 00:10:38,807 --> 00:10:39,307 Good to meet you. 216 00:10:39,441 --> 00:10:40,176 Yeah. 217 00:10:40,308 --> 00:10:41,209 You're... you're hot. 218 00:10:41,309 --> 00:10:42,444 Must be breaking some hearts, right? 219 00:10:42,510 --> 00:10:43,311 Hey, sweetie, how are you? 220 00:10:43,378 --> 00:10:44,378 Good, how are you? 221 00:10:44,478 --> 00:10:45,212 Chris good to see you. 222 00:10:45,312 --> 00:10:46,980 No, no, no. 223 00:10:47,115 --> 00:10:47,481 Hi. 224 00:10:48,482 --> 00:10:49,383 Oh, you know what? 225 00:10:49,483 --> 00:10:51,350 We only made up one single bed. 226 00:10:51,484 --> 00:10:52,418 Nice to meet you. 227 00:10:52,518 --> 00:10:53,319 Oh, that's... that's OK, Mom. 228 00:10:53,386 --> 00:10:54,721 I can... I can help them. 229 00:10:54,821 --> 00:10:56,455 I can make my own bed. 230 00:10:56,521 --> 00:10:57,322 No, no, no, no. 231 00:10:57,456 --> 00:10:58,157 Let me... let me help. 232 00:10:58,290 --> 00:10:59,125 Yeah. 233 00:10:59,192 --> 00:11:00,525 We can catch up at the same time. 234 00:11:00,659 --> 00:11:01,626 OK. 235 00:11:01,693 --> 00:11:03,161 Come on, let's get some coffee. 236 00:11:03,227 --> 00:11:03,627 Great. 237 00:11:03,694 --> 00:11:05,329 OK. 238 00:11:05,396 --> 00:11:06,664 Elisabeth's here. 239 00:11:06,797 --> 00:11:08,665 Oh, fabulous. 240 00:11:08,732 --> 00:11:09,666 Right and then right? 241 00:11:09,733 --> 00:11:10,834 Down here. 242 00:11:14,670 --> 00:11:15,504 It's been a while. 243 00:11:15,571 --> 00:11:16,172 Yeah. 244 00:11:19,508 --> 00:11:22,243 We thought you might come to Jonathan's school play. 245 00:11:22,343 --> 00:11:22,810 Sorry. 246 00:11:22,877 --> 00:11:24,746 I wanted to. 247 00:11:24,846 --> 00:11:27,380 I really wanted to be there, but there was... 248 00:11:27,514 --> 00:11:28,082 I can't remember. 249 00:11:28,182 --> 00:11:29,516 Something. 250 00:11:29,583 --> 00:11:31,985 Mhm. 251 00:11:32,052 --> 00:11:32,418 Here. 252 00:11:36,822 --> 00:11:38,757 Then Dad's birthday. 253 00:11:38,857 --> 00:11:40,925 Oh, I wanted to be there for that too. 254 00:11:41,025 --> 00:11:41,826 Uh-huh. 255 00:11:41,893 --> 00:11:44,028 Hey, thanks for all your texts. 256 00:11:44,163 --> 00:11:45,063 What? 257 00:11:45,196 --> 00:11:46,330 Reminding me. 258 00:11:46,396 --> 00:11:47,030 Oh, yeah. 259 00:11:47,098 --> 00:11:47,931 Sure. 260 00:11:48,031 --> 00:11:49,333 Everybody thought you forgot, so... 261 00:11:49,399 --> 00:11:50,500 Yeah, I realize that. 262 00:11:50,566 --> 00:11:51,267 Well, it's happened. 263 00:11:51,367 --> 00:11:53,170 It has. 264 00:11:53,237 --> 00:11:57,839 It wasn't intended as criticism. 265 00:11:57,906 --> 00:12:01,110 Towels in here, I think. 266 00:12:01,210 --> 00:12:03,577 So How's the dance program going? 267 00:12:03,711 --> 00:12:05,180 I dropped out. 268 00:12:05,247 --> 00:12:06,547 Oh. 269 00:12:06,614 --> 00:12:07,782 Oh. 270 00:12:07,882 --> 00:12:10,084 I... I thought you made this big discovery 271 00:12:10,217 --> 00:12:12,418 and... and finally found your thing. 272 00:12:12,552 --> 00:12:13,853 I did make a big discovery. 273 00:12:13,920 --> 00:12:16,222 I found it wasn't my thing. 274 00:12:16,355 --> 00:12:19,725 Along with the weird acupuncture thing and the quilting thing 275 00:12:19,792 --> 00:12:20,858 - and the yoga therapy thing. - Very informed. 276 00:12:20,925 --> 00:12:21,959 Very sympathetic. 277 00:12:22,060 --> 00:12:23,394 None of them are your thing, all 278 00:12:23,528 --> 00:12:25,363 these things that they pay for. 279 00:12:25,429 --> 00:12:26,064 OK. 280 00:12:26,198 --> 00:12:27,430 Here we go. 281 00:12:27,564 --> 00:12:28,899 And while we're sharing, what the hell is she doing here? 282 00:12:28,965 --> 00:12:31,401 Uh, what's Mr. Dull doing here? 283 00:12:31,535 --> 00:12:34,137 Mr. Dull happens to be my husband. 284 00:12:34,237 --> 00:12:36,705 Yeah, well, Chris happens to be my husband. 285 00:12:36,772 --> 00:12:38,141 You said you'd split up. 286 00:12:38,241 --> 00:12:42,477 We got back together. 287 00:12:42,577 --> 00:12:44,146 Are you even sure you're gay? 288 00:12:44,245 --> 00:12:46,914 We've been together for nearly a year and a half. 289 00:12:46,980 --> 00:12:48,415 God, a year and a half. 290 00:12:48,482 --> 00:12:49,083 Oh, come on. 291 00:12:49,217 --> 00:12:49,917 Of what? 292 00:12:50,051 --> 00:12:52,485 Disappointment, crisis, drama. 293 00:12:52,585 --> 00:12:53,986 Because what was it? 294 00:12:54,087 --> 00:12:56,788 She was... you said she was an immature, irresponsible, 295 00:12:56,922 --> 00:12:57,989 shit-for-brains. 296 00:13:02,593 --> 00:13:04,129 Maybe I should wait downstairs. 297 00:13:04,262 --> 00:13:05,596 Yeah, maybe you should, thanks. 298 00:13:10,900 --> 00:13:12,635 I'm sorry. 299 00:13:12,769 --> 00:13:15,238 Shit. 300 00:13:15,305 --> 00:13:17,439 Chris is helping me get through this. 301 00:13:17,506 --> 00:13:19,675 Ever thought about that? 302 00:13:19,775 --> 00:13:20,775 You promised not to bring her. 303 00:13:20,842 --> 00:13:21,776 No. 304 00:13:21,909 --> 00:13:23,644 You told me not to bring her. 305 00:13:23,778 --> 00:13:26,947 There's a difference. 306 00:13:27,013 --> 00:13:28,982 OK. 307 00:13:29,116 --> 00:13:30,016 OK. 308 00:13:30,117 --> 00:13:33,752 Please, just give Mom this one 309 00:13:33,819 --> 00:13:38,523 weekend without having the whole world revolve around you, Anna. 310 00:13:38,623 --> 00:13:39,724 It's just one weekend. 311 00:13:39,824 --> 00:13:41,293 Will you do that? 312 00:13:41,426 --> 00:13:43,795 Hmm? 313 00:13:43,928 --> 00:13:46,297 Can you do that? 314 00:13:46,363 --> 00:13:48,266 Can you quit being a fucking bitch? 315 00:13:48,333 --> 00:13:49,800 OK. 316 00:13:49,933 --> 00:13:50,466 Fuck. 317 00:13:57,973 --> 00:13:58,807 He's lost like 35 pounds. 318 00:13:58,874 --> 00:13:59,975 Really? 319 00:14:00,042 --> 00:14:01,277 It was mostly cutting out sugar... 320 00:14:01,344 --> 00:14:02,310 Uh-huh. 321 00:14:02,443 --> 00:14:03,477 And then cheese, which was the hard part. 322 00:14:03,611 --> 00:14:04,378 Cheese? 323 00:14:07,115 --> 00:14:09,616 How do you think she's doing? 324 00:14:09,682 --> 00:14:11,384 Dodging every emotional bullet. 325 00:14:11,484 --> 00:14:12,052 Yeah. 326 00:14:14,653 --> 00:14:16,021 And how are you? 327 00:14:16,155 --> 00:14:20,958 I'm a little tired of people saying "and how are you." 328 00:14:21,025 --> 00:14:23,494 Yeah, sorry. 329 00:14:23,628 --> 00:14:25,197 How's work? 330 00:14:25,330 --> 00:14:26,897 Work is... 331 00:14:26,997 --> 00:14:32,002 an undergrad, last week, 332 00:14:32,069 --> 00:14:34,403 refused to read "The Odyssey" because it 333 00:14:34,503 --> 00:14:37,340 was literally everything that was wrong with the world. 334 00:14:37,406 --> 00:14:37,840 "The Odyssey"? 335 00:14:37,907 --> 00:14:38,873 Mhm. 336 00:14:39,007 --> 00:14:39,540 "The Odyssey." 337 00:14:52,518 --> 00:14:52,985 OK. 338 00:14:53,053 --> 00:14:54,187 Three down. 339 00:14:54,321 --> 00:14:58,357 H, I, J, K, L, M, N, O. Five letters. 340 00:14:58,423 --> 00:15:00,259 What? 341 00:15:00,359 --> 00:15:01,327 Let me see it. 342 00:15:01,394 --> 00:15:02,493 That's it. 343 00:15:02,559 --> 00:15:08,066 H, I, J, K, L, M, N, O. Huh. 344 00:15:08,198 --> 00:15:11,501 Yes, I'm surrendering to Chablis. 345 00:15:11,567 --> 00:15:12,936 Shall I get a funnel? 346 00:15:13,037 --> 00:15:15,271 Thanks. 347 00:15:15,371 --> 00:15:18,840 H, I, J, K, L, M, N, O, five letters. 348 00:15:18,907 --> 00:15:19,741 That is... 349 00:15:19,875 --> 00:15:20,875 That's the whole clue? 350 00:15:21,008 --> 00:15:21,709 - What are they doing? - That's it. 351 00:15:21,776 --> 00:15:22,443 It's weird. 352 00:15:22,543 --> 00:15:24,578 Playing soccer? 353 00:15:24,712 --> 00:15:25,546 It's hard to tell. 354 00:15:25,613 --> 00:15:26,247 That's it. 355 00:15:26,380 --> 00:15:27,547 H, I, J, K... 356 00:15:30,717 --> 00:15:34,287 So are you and Chris living together now, or what? 357 00:15:34,387 --> 00:15:37,923 No, it's... we've been a little on and off. 358 00:15:42,227 --> 00:15:44,895 When I was your age, I had someone 359 00:15:44,962 --> 00:15:48,899 I moved in with four times. 360 00:15:49,033 --> 00:15:51,401 And out four times. 361 00:15:51,534 --> 00:15:56,439 With all my belongings, all my books, and my cat. 362 00:15:56,571 --> 00:15:57,539 That crazy cat. 363 00:15:57,605 --> 00:16:00,475 That crazy cat. 364 00:16:00,575 --> 00:16:03,544 That's a lot of moving. 365 00:16:03,610 --> 00:16:04,611 For a cat. 366 00:16:04,745 --> 00:16:07,115 Right. 367 00:16:07,248 --> 00:16:09,983 Well, I was confused. 368 00:16:10,084 --> 00:16:13,420 I was out there fighting for free love, so 369 00:16:13,486 --> 00:16:15,620 how could I tie myself down like that? 370 00:16:18,623 --> 00:16:20,891 It gets easier, I guess. 371 00:16:20,958 --> 00:16:26,930 Oh yes, the old woman lied. 372 00:16:27,064 --> 00:16:28,932 Water. 373 00:16:29,066 --> 00:16:30,267 What? 374 00:16:30,401 --> 00:16:31,435 Water? 375 00:16:31,501 --> 00:16:36,605 H, I, J, K, L, M, N, O. H to O, five letters. 376 00:16:36,739 --> 00:16:37,840 Water is the answer. 377 00:16:37,940 --> 00:16:38,973 H20. 378 00:16:39,108 --> 00:16:39,774 Well, that's... that is brilliant. 379 00:16:39,907 --> 00:16:40,842 Oh. 380 00:16:40,942 --> 00:16:41,776 - Pretty good. - That's good. 381 00:16:41,843 --> 00:16:42,478 He's good, your dad. 382 00:16:42,610 --> 00:16:43,278 He is good. 383 00:16:43,412 --> 00:16:44,312 The best. 384 00:16:44,445 --> 00:16:46,680 Did you know that next to Q, X, and Z, 385 00:16:46,780 --> 00:16:50,283 J is the least used letter in the English language? 386 00:16:50,417 --> 00:16:51,485 Hi. 387 00:16:51,617 --> 00:16:52,319 Honey, have some cake. 388 00:16:52,452 --> 00:16:53,753 Your mom's cake's over there. 389 00:16:53,819 --> 00:16:54,787 It's so delicious. 390 00:16:54,920 --> 00:16:56,489 Yeah, this cake is so good. 391 00:16:56,621 --> 00:16:57,323 You have to try it. 392 00:16:57,456 --> 00:16:57,989 Sweet. 393 00:16:58,124 --> 00:16:58,790 I want some of that. 394 00:16:58,857 --> 00:16:59,791 It's so dense. 395 00:16:59,858 --> 00:17:00,792 She doesn't use any flour. 396 00:17:00,859 --> 00:17:01,793 Jonathan, your shoes are wet. 397 00:17:01,926 --> 00:17:02,793 You should put them by the door. 398 00:17:02,860 --> 00:17:03,794 I know this is the... 399 00:17:11,468 --> 00:17:13,636 Well, you know it's time when you have to start drinking 400 00:17:13,703 --> 00:17:16,339 your Chablis from a paper cup. 401 00:17:16,472 --> 00:17:16,938 Are you OK? 402 00:17:17,006 --> 00:17:18,041 Mom? 403 00:17:18,141 --> 00:17:18,807 - I'm fine. - I'll get it. 404 00:17:18,874 --> 00:17:19,442 I'll get it. 405 00:17:19,509 --> 00:17:19,808 Good. 406 00:17:19,941 --> 00:17:20,608 Be... 407 00:17:20,674 --> 00:17:21,443 It's all right. 408 00:17:21,510 --> 00:17:22,344 I'm... it's fine. 409 00:17:22,477 --> 00:17:23,045 Just... just tell me if you're... 410 00:17:23,145 --> 00:17:23,677 I'm not. 411 00:17:24,779 --> 00:17:25,480 There's glass everywhere. 412 00:17:26,946 --> 00:17:27,814 OK. 413 00:17:27,947 --> 00:17:29,883 Be careful, Jennifer. 414 00:17:29,983 --> 00:17:31,485 You never liked those glasses. 415 00:17:31,618 --> 00:17:32,485 I hated those glasses. 416 00:17:33,319 --> 00:17:34,054 OK. 417 00:17:34,187 --> 00:17:38,057 So 11 across, roadside dweller... 418 00:17:42,860 --> 00:17:43,795 There you go. 419 00:17:43,861 --> 00:17:44,495 ET. 420 00:17:44,561 --> 00:17:45,329 A frog! 421 00:17:45,463 --> 00:17:46,030 A fish. 422 00:17:46,164 --> 00:17:46,830 "Finding Nemo"? 423 00:17:47,831 --> 00:17:48,665 "Shark Tale." 424 00:17:48,799 --> 00:17:49,900 You kicked ass. 425 00:17:50,000 --> 00:17:52,502 Oh, OK, uh... 426 00:17:52,568 --> 00:17:53,503 uh... 427 00:17:53,569 --> 00:17:54,870 It's a hat. 428 00:17:55,005 --> 00:17:55,871 Harry Potter. 429 00:17:56,005 --> 00:17:57,872 I think she got it. 430 00:17:58,007 --> 00:17:58,873 No, no, you go. 431 00:17:59,008 --> 00:17:59,808 You go. 432 00:17:59,874 --> 00:18:00,809 Right. 433 00:18:00,875 --> 00:18:02,477 Um, you're a black panther. 434 00:18:02,544 --> 00:18:03,677 King, a king. 435 00:18:03,744 --> 00:18:04,978 Oh, oh, "Lion King"! 436 00:18:05,046 --> 00:18:05,846 Yaah... 437 00:18:08,915 --> 00:18:09,849 Come on, go. 438 00:18:09,916 --> 00:18:12,419 I want to see what you got. 439 00:18:14,586 --> 00:18:16,422 I think you're a deodorant commercial. 440 00:18:16,522 --> 00:18:17,356 "King Kong"! 441 00:18:17,423 --> 00:18:17,823 Yeah! 442 00:18:20,858 --> 00:18:21,393 Great. 443 00:18:21,526 --> 00:18:22,394 Well done. 444 00:18:25,330 --> 00:18:30,367 I'm OK now. 445 00:18:33,269 --> 00:18:34,736 Blow out the candles. 446 00:19:06,097 --> 00:19:06,697 Hi. 447 00:19:09,566 --> 00:19:12,969 Do you remember that night at Pete's party 448 00:19:13,070 --> 00:19:15,937 on the farm, when we tried acid? 449 00:19:16,072 --> 00:19:19,208 Yes. 450 00:19:19,275 --> 00:19:22,910 I think you persuaded me we needed to listen 451 00:19:23,044 --> 00:19:25,247 to the fireflies because... 452 00:19:25,313 --> 00:19:27,314 because they were trying to tell us something. 453 00:19:27,414 --> 00:19:29,749 Probably not to do any more acid 454 00:19:29,816 --> 00:19:30,750 and just stick to mushrooms. 455 00:19:38,323 --> 00:19:40,958 Will you look after my girls? 456 00:19:41,093 --> 00:19:42,927 You don't need to ask. 457 00:19:47,431 --> 00:19:50,000 They're OK, aren't they? 458 00:19:50,100 --> 00:19:51,168 They're OK. 459 00:19:56,605 --> 00:19:57,173 Hey. 460 00:20:02,676 --> 00:20:05,779 Thank you, Lily. 461 00:20:05,913 --> 00:20:09,116 Thank you, Liz. 462 00:20:39,107 --> 00:20:42,277 You're up early. 463 00:20:42,344 --> 00:20:44,145 Couldn't sleep. 464 00:20:44,278 --> 00:20:44,811 Yeah. 465 00:20:49,550 --> 00:20:51,985 How are you going to do it? 466 00:20:52,118 --> 00:20:54,387 Didn't they tell you? 467 00:20:54,487 --> 00:20:55,820 They told me not to worry about it 468 00:20:55,887 --> 00:20:58,023 and make sure Grandma has a nice weekend. 469 00:20:58,157 --> 00:21:03,294 Well, they're... they were just trying to protect you. 470 00:21:03,361 --> 00:21:04,229 But I want to know. 471 00:21:06,797 --> 00:21:07,365 You sure? 472 00:21:11,501 --> 00:21:18,040 Tomorrow, after you've all gone, I'll put her to bed. 473 00:21:18,174 --> 00:21:21,009 I'll give her some medicine in a glass. 474 00:21:21,076 --> 00:21:27,982 And then she'll go to sleep while I sit beside her. 475 00:21:28,048 --> 00:21:32,719 And then that's it. 476 00:21:32,851 --> 00:21:34,487 Yeah. 477 00:21:34,554 --> 00:21:35,854 It's illegal, right? 478 00:21:35,921 --> 00:21:37,357 Yeah. 479 00:21:37,490 --> 00:21:40,825 It's... it's illegal here, but it's legal in some states, 480 00:21:40,891 --> 00:21:42,094 in Washington, Oregon. 481 00:21:42,194 --> 00:21:46,763 We could've gone to Europe, but this is... 482 00:21:46,863 --> 00:21:47,897 this is our home. 483 00:21:48,032 --> 00:21:49,765 This is the house that... 484 00:21:49,865 --> 00:21:54,404 that she built. This is where Lil wants it to happen. 485 00:22:00,842 --> 00:22:03,844 She seems OK to me. 486 00:22:03,910 --> 00:22:05,380 She doesn't seem that bad. 487 00:22:08,348 --> 00:22:09,716 Do you know how ill she is? 488 00:22:14,786 --> 00:22:16,921 You've seen how she walks, how she can... can 489 00:22:17,056 --> 00:22:21,092 only use her right arm, right? 490 00:22:21,226 --> 00:22:23,061 In a few weeks, it's possible she 491 00:22:23,128 --> 00:22:29,533 won't be able to move at all, to talk, or even to swallow. 492 00:22:29,600 --> 00:22:33,369 Try to imagine the horror of not being able to swallow. 493 00:22:33,436 --> 00:22:37,240 She'd be surrounded by machines to help her breathe, 494 00:22:37,373 --> 00:22:40,075 to remove the saliva and so on. 495 00:22:40,142 --> 00:22:44,745 And we'd have to feed her through a tube in her side, 496 00:22:44,878 --> 00:22:46,913 there. 497 00:22:47,048 --> 00:22:49,915 She doesn't want that. 498 00:22:50,050 --> 00:22:51,884 And she's decided that... 499 00:22:51,951 --> 00:22:55,055 that now's the... now's the time to do it while 500 00:22:55,121 --> 00:22:57,222 she's still in charge of... 501 00:22:57,289 --> 00:22:59,824 of what happens to her. 502 00:22:59,924 --> 00:23:01,093 Will you go to jail? 503 00:23:04,595 --> 00:23:09,099 After she's gone, I'll go out for a walk. 504 00:23:09,166 --> 00:23:10,000 I get back. 505 00:23:10,100 --> 00:23:12,069 I call 9-1-1. 506 00:23:12,135 --> 00:23:16,305 I... I tell them what's happened, that she must have taken 507 00:23:16,439 --> 00:23:17,939 the medicine while I was out. 508 00:23:18,074 --> 00:23:24,446 And... and something like yes, I'm sure she's dead. 509 00:23:24,512 --> 00:23:26,313 I'm a doctor and everything. 510 00:23:29,750 --> 00:23:30,184 Yeah. 511 00:23:30,284 --> 00:23:32,485 I'll tell them... 512 00:23:32,618 --> 00:23:34,354 I'll tell them I went out for a walk. 513 00:23:37,689 --> 00:23:39,424 And that's why we have to do it now, while she 514 00:23:39,491 --> 00:23:41,326 still has the use of her arm. 515 00:23:46,030 --> 00:23:48,265 Huh. 516 00:23:48,332 --> 00:23:49,500 They're waking up. 517 00:23:54,838 --> 00:23:56,138 Morning. 518 00:23:56,271 --> 00:23:56,972 Morning. 519 00:23:57,106 --> 00:23:58,807 Mm, cholesterol. 520 00:23:58,873 --> 00:24:00,042 Sleep all right? 521 00:24:00,142 --> 00:24:01,143 - God, it smells so good. - Good morning, everybody. 522 00:24:01,210 --> 00:24:02,110 Good morning. 523 00:24:02,176 --> 00:24:02,844 How did everybody sleep? 524 00:24:02,977 --> 00:24:04,112 Smells amazing. 525 00:24:04,178 --> 00:24:04,846 Wow. 526 00:24:04,979 --> 00:24:06,147 Whoa, Jonathan. 527 00:24:06,280 --> 00:24:08,515 I haven't seen you up this early in forever. 528 00:24:08,648 --> 00:24:10,384 It's really not that early, Dad. 529 00:24:10,484 --> 00:24:11,485 Are Anna and Chris up? 530 00:24:11,618 --> 00:24:12,819 - It's 8:30. - No. 531 00:24:12,953 --> 00:24:14,186 Jonathan, why don't you run up and wake them? 532 00:24:14,320 --> 00:24:14,987 No, I'll do it. 533 00:24:15,054 --> 00:24:15,721 Oh, Mom. 534 00:24:15,821 --> 00:24:16,288 I can do it. 535 00:24:16,355 --> 00:24:16,956 I can do it. 536 00:24:17,022 --> 00:24:17,623 Anna! 537 00:24:17,690 --> 00:24:18,958 Chris! 538 00:24:19,024 --> 00:24:19,824 You up yet? 539 00:24:19,890 --> 00:24:20,392 I'm dead soon. 540 00:24:20,492 --> 00:24:21,659 You coming down? 541 00:24:24,963 --> 00:24:26,163 That should do it. 542 00:24:28,298 --> 00:24:29,299 Pancakes. 543 00:24:29,366 --> 00:24:30,834 Yeah, that should do it. 544 00:24:30,900 --> 00:24:31,567 Did you know this... 545 00:24:31,667 --> 00:24:32,835 Want some help with that? 546 00:24:32,901 --> 00:24:33,902 ...one of the oldest foods in history? 547 00:24:34,003 --> 00:24:34,670 I did... I... 548 00:24:34,804 --> 00:24:35,872 I did know that, Michael. 549 00:24:36,005 --> 00:24:36,905 They unearthed a tomb in Sumeria... 550 00:24:37,006 --> 00:24:37,839 Anybody want tea? 551 00:24:37,973 --> 00:24:38,807 Anybody want tea? You want tea? 552 00:24:38,874 --> 00:24:39,341 Liz? Tea? 553 00:24:39,408 --> 00:24:40,175 Yeah, tea. 554 00:24:40,308 --> 00:24:40,908 Great. 555 00:24:41,009 --> 00:24:42,010 Of course. 556 00:24:42,144 --> 00:24:43,577 Where is this from? 557 00:24:43,677 --> 00:24:47,848 It's... it's Beluga, it's the... the same as we had in St. 558 00:24:47,914 --> 00:24:49,016 Petersberg. 559 00:24:49,150 --> 00:24:50,683 Jonno, will you pass the salt and pepper, please. 560 00:24:50,817 --> 00:24:53,019 A little bit more expensive, not on the black market. 561 00:24:53,086 --> 00:24:54,354 Salt and pepper, please. 562 00:24:54,487 --> 00:24:55,355 I can't wait. 563 00:24:55,422 --> 00:24:56,889 Is that enough? 564 00:24:57,022 --> 00:24:57,856 That's plenty. 565 00:24:57,990 --> 00:24:58,724 Thanks so much. 566 00:24:58,857 --> 00:24:59,324 One, please. 567 00:24:59,391 --> 00:25:00,092 As you wish. 568 00:25:01,692 --> 00:25:03,828 You know, the Indian independence movement started 569 00:25:03,895 --> 00:25:05,863 when Gandhi asked the Indians to make 570 00:25:05,997 --> 00:25:08,365 their own salt in an act of defiance 571 00:25:08,432 --> 00:25:09,933 against the British Empire. 572 00:25:10,033 --> 00:25:11,201 Hmm. 573 00:25:11,334 --> 00:25:16,739 Just think about it, how something so insignificant 574 00:25:16,872 --> 00:25:19,507 could lead to something so powerful. 575 00:25:19,574 --> 00:25:21,209 You were always such a rebel. 576 00:25:23,044 --> 00:25:24,045 Did you hear that? 577 00:25:24,112 --> 00:25:24,879 I'm a rebel. 578 00:25:25,013 --> 00:25:25,679 You hear her, Jonno? 579 00:25:25,746 --> 00:25:26,380 I think she was kidding. 580 00:25:31,084 --> 00:25:32,518 Dad, she's choking. 581 00:25:32,585 --> 00:25:33,386 No I'm fine. 582 00:25:33,453 --> 00:25:34,220 Dad, she's choking. 583 00:25:34,353 --> 00:25:36,689 I'm fine. 584 00:25:36,756 --> 00:25:37,123 Fine. 585 00:25:42,761 --> 00:25:44,562 Wow we really lucked out with the weather today. 586 00:25:44,628 --> 00:25:46,430 Could you pass the marmalade, please? 587 00:25:46,564 --> 00:25:47,598 Yeah, we did, didn't we? 588 00:25:47,731 --> 00:25:48,732 Maybe we should go for a walk later. 589 00:25:48,866 --> 00:25:49,732 - A walk? - Oh, yeah. 590 00:25:49,866 --> 00:25:51,067 That's a really nice idea. 591 00:25:51,201 --> 00:25:52,068 What do you want to do, Mom? 592 00:25:52,135 --> 00:25:53,069 I'm up for that. 593 00:25:53,203 --> 00:25:55,939 Mom, what do you want to do? 594 00:25:56,071 --> 00:25:59,641 I think a walk sounds like a nice idea. 595 00:25:59,741 --> 00:26:03,444 Then tonight, just to keep you on your toes, 596 00:26:03,578 --> 00:26:07,048 if it's all right with everyone, I'd 597 00:26:07,114 --> 00:26:09,749 like to celebrate Christmas. 598 00:26:11,218 --> 00:26:12,920 It'll be so much better than boring old Thanksgiving, right? 599 00:26:13,053 --> 00:26:14,320 And I think, Darling, maybe you could 600 00:26:14,420 --> 00:26:16,455 make us a big Christmas dinner. 601 00:26:16,589 --> 00:26:18,057 The whole shebang? 602 00:26:18,123 --> 00:26:19,225 The whole shebang. 603 00:26:20,592 --> 00:26:22,427 And Jonno, maybe you could go with your dad 604 00:26:22,560 --> 00:26:24,395 and find us a tree. 605 00:26:24,462 --> 00:26:25,330 Great. 606 00:26:25,429 --> 00:26:26,463 OK. 607 00:26:26,597 --> 00:26:28,265 The axe is in the... in the barn. 608 00:26:28,398 --> 00:26:29,666 The... the axe. 609 00:26:29,766 --> 00:26:30,334 Mhm. 610 00:26:30,434 --> 00:26:31,501 Don't get arrested. 611 00:26:31,601 --> 00:26:32,768 And then afterwards, Jonno, why don't 612 00:26:32,835 --> 00:26:34,770 you help me decorate the tree? 613 00:26:34,837 --> 00:26:36,472 Mm, sure. 614 00:26:36,606 --> 00:26:37,772 Wait, are we going to get presents? 615 00:26:37,839 --> 00:26:39,808 Oh, I like that line of thinking. 616 00:26:39,942 --> 00:26:41,510 If you are a very nice, Santa will 617 00:26:41,610 --> 00:26:43,245 bring you an inheritance, yes. 618 00:26:43,311 --> 00:26:44,411 Cool. 619 00:26:44,478 --> 00:26:45,446 Are you rich? 620 00:26:45,513 --> 00:26:46,347 Jonathan! 621 00:26:46,447 --> 00:26:47,181 Why not? 622 00:26:47,281 --> 00:26:48,449 Fine. 623 00:26:48,582 --> 00:26:50,116 The only stipulation being it has to all 624 00:26:50,250 --> 00:26:51,484 be spent on hookers and blow. 625 00:26:52,485 --> 00:26:53,286 Sounds good. 626 00:26:54,153 --> 00:26:54,787 She means it. 627 00:26:55,687 --> 00:26:57,189 Is this really what you want? 628 00:26:57,289 --> 00:26:59,959 I mean, you could... you could wait for an actual Christmas. 629 00:27:00,025 --> 00:27:02,126 Jennifer, don't fucking ruin this. 630 00:27:02,260 --> 00:27:02,793 OK. 631 00:27:07,965 --> 00:27:11,368 Well, I could, um, I could be Santa, if you want. 632 00:27:11,468 --> 00:27:12,602 Yeah, that's a great idea. 633 00:27:12,669 --> 00:27:13,636 Enough food, I could get that belly. 634 00:27:13,702 --> 00:27:14,470 Dude, that would be so sick. 635 00:27:14,537 --> 00:27:15,337 Oh, yeah. 636 00:27:15,471 --> 00:27:17,106 And now pass the bacon. 637 00:27:17,172 --> 00:27:18,040 Ooh. 638 00:27:18,140 --> 00:27:20,441 No more lean shit for me. 639 00:27:20,508 --> 00:27:23,645 I'm gonna have this bacon. 640 00:27:23,778 --> 00:27:26,680 Hop replacement surgery, they used to ask for the hips 641 00:27:26,813 --> 00:27:28,715 back upon the patient's death. 642 00:27:28,815 --> 00:27:30,684 They would have to sign a release. 643 00:27:30,817 --> 00:27:32,885 And they would go back to the morgue... 644 00:27:32,986 --> 00:27:33,853 Hey listen... 645 00:27:33,987 --> 00:27:34,988 Yeah. 646 00:27:35,121 --> 00:27:37,156 Is it... is it your idea that you wanna have... 647 00:27:37,223 --> 00:27:38,857 I like her. 648 00:27:38,991 --> 00:27:40,225 So do I. 649 00:27:40,325 --> 00:27:43,694 Plus it's so, so chic to have a lesbian in the family. 650 00:27:43,827 --> 00:27:46,230 Didn't you know that? 651 00:27:46,330 --> 00:27:47,498 We tried it once, remember? 652 00:27:47,631 --> 00:27:49,566 Was it '73 or '74? 653 00:27:51,969 --> 00:27:56,305 Yeah, it was definitely a drunken attempt. 654 00:27:56,371 --> 00:27:57,639 Maybe a lack of technique? 655 00:27:57,706 --> 00:27:59,909 Oh, I thought your technique was fine. 656 00:28:05,047 --> 00:28:09,516 She's... she's fragile, isn't she? 657 00:28:09,649 --> 00:28:10,517 Anna? 658 00:28:10,584 --> 00:28:11,484 Anna. 659 00:28:11,551 --> 00:28:12,519 No, she's fine. 660 00:28:12,586 --> 00:28:13,519 She's absolutely fine. 661 00:28:13,586 --> 00:28:14,587 She's just a little flighty. 662 00:28:17,489 --> 00:28:22,193 All this back and forth, is that a sign the relationship's 663 00:28:22,327 --> 00:28:25,997 right, or that it's broken? 664 00:28:26,064 --> 00:28:27,864 Maybe they don't really love each other, 665 00:28:27,932 --> 00:28:30,534 or maybe they really love each other. 666 00:28:30,601 --> 00:28:31,867 Yeah, useful analysis. 667 00:28:31,935 --> 00:28:32,668 Thanks. 668 00:28:32,735 --> 00:28:34,403 Oh, I'm out of gas. 669 00:28:34,537 --> 00:28:35,204 What? 670 00:28:35,271 --> 00:28:35,906 I'm out of gas. 671 00:28:36,039 --> 00:28:36,907 Are you OK? 672 00:28:37,040 --> 00:28:37,606 Yeah, I just... 673 00:28:37,706 --> 00:28:39,041 I need a... just maybe... 674 00:28:39,107 --> 00:28:39,674 Wait, wait, wait. 675 00:28:39,741 --> 00:28:40,442 ...sit down. 676 00:28:40,542 --> 00:28:42,377 Hey, hey, Paul! 677 00:28:42,444 --> 00:28:45,846 Jen, can you come? 678 00:28:45,914 --> 00:28:47,514 Oh. 679 00:28:47,581 --> 00:28:49,749 Beautiful. 680 00:28:49,882 --> 00:28:52,118 Invigorating, isn't it? 681 00:28:52,218 --> 00:28:53,219 Yes, it is. 682 00:28:53,286 --> 00:28:54,054 It is. 683 00:28:54,187 --> 00:28:55,721 It is invigorating. 684 00:29:01,893 --> 00:29:02,693 What? 685 00:29:02,760 --> 00:29:05,296 Jonathan, cover your ears. 686 00:29:05,396 --> 00:29:06,064 Why? 687 00:29:06,130 --> 00:29:07,198 Just... 688 00:29:07,263 --> 00:29:11,301 This is... this is where you were conceived. 689 00:29:11,401 --> 00:29:12,402 Oh my god. 690 00:29:12,469 --> 00:29:13,569 That is gross. 691 00:29:13,702 --> 00:29:14,269 Here? 692 00:29:15,071 --> 00:29:15,537 Yeah. 693 00:29:15,604 --> 00:29:16,238 Right here? 694 00:29:16,305 --> 00:29:17,573 Well, yeah. 695 00:29:20,575 --> 00:29:25,213 We were, um, visiting with a... um, a colleague of Paul's 696 00:29:25,278 --> 00:29:26,813 who lived right near here. 697 00:29:26,914 --> 00:29:30,918 And, well, the wife is just fucking annoying. 698 00:29:31,052 --> 00:29:31,751 Oh, god. 699 00:29:31,885 --> 00:29:33,252 She would never stop talking. 700 00:29:33,319 --> 00:29:34,620 Yak, yak, yak. 701 00:29:34,754 --> 00:29:36,589 Never stopped, even when she was eating or swimming 702 00:29:36,722 --> 00:29:38,590 in the ocean, she just never stopped. 703 00:29:38,723 --> 00:29:40,425 And all that came out of her mouth... 704 00:29:40,558 --> 00:29:41,726 Was shit. 705 00:29:41,793 --> 00:29:43,129 It was the worst. 706 00:29:43,260 --> 00:29:47,598 And so I pretended to be sick and ran outside. 707 00:29:47,665 --> 00:29:52,602 And we came here, and then he cured me. 708 00:29:52,669 --> 00:29:53,436 - I cured you. - Yeah. 709 00:29:53,503 --> 00:29:54,104 OK. 710 00:29:54,237 --> 00:29:55,005 TMI. 711 00:29:55,105 --> 00:29:55,504 TMI. 712 00:29:57,140 --> 00:29:59,108 And then we just got so fond of this area 713 00:29:59,241 --> 00:30:03,111 that we bought some land when it became available. 714 00:30:03,177 --> 00:30:06,614 And then... well, we couldn't even afford it at that time. 715 00:30:06,681 --> 00:30:08,015 We couldn't afford you then. 716 00:30:08,115 --> 00:30:09,449 No. 717 00:30:09,582 --> 00:30:10,784 Well, I'm not surprised you come 718 00:30:10,918 --> 00:30:12,987 from someplace so beautiful. 719 00:30:13,120 --> 00:30:13,519 Aw. 720 00:30:13,619 --> 00:30:14,620 Oh, honey. 721 00:30:14,753 --> 00:30:15,487 Sweet. 722 00:30:15,621 --> 00:30:16,755 Well, that's deep. 723 00:30:16,822 --> 00:30:20,458 That is... that is deep. 724 00:30:20,591 --> 00:30:22,860 What about me? 725 00:30:22,961 --> 00:30:24,129 What about you, sweetie? 726 00:30:24,262 --> 00:30:26,263 Where was I conceived? 727 00:30:26,329 --> 00:30:27,264 Oh. 728 00:30:27,330 --> 00:30:28,465 Do you know, I don't... 729 00:30:28,532 --> 00:30:29,299 - I don't... I don't really know. - I do. 730 00:30:29,366 --> 00:30:29,967 I know. 731 00:30:30,101 --> 00:30:31,333 I know. 732 00:30:31,467 --> 00:30:32,969 It was when I went with you to that convention in Buffalo. 733 00:30:33,036 --> 00:30:35,604 We stayed at that horrible motel near the airport, 734 00:30:35,671 --> 00:30:36,505 and I got bedbugs. 735 00:30:36,639 --> 00:30:37,173 Oh. 736 00:30:38,174 --> 00:30:39,108 - I remember that. - Oh, yeah. 737 00:30:39,175 --> 00:30:39,942 - Oh. - Aw. 738 00:30:40,009 --> 00:30:41,309 But it was totally worth it. 739 00:30:41,376 --> 00:30:42,510 It was totally worth it. 740 00:30:43,610 --> 00:30:44,378 Completely. 741 00:30:44,478 --> 00:30:46,114 That's pretty funny. 742 00:30:46,181 --> 00:30:47,115 All right. 743 00:30:47,182 --> 00:30:48,149 Shall we move on? 744 00:30:48,782 --> 00:30:49,649 Sure. 745 00:30:49,716 --> 00:30:51,617 I'm OK, yeah. 746 00:30:53,519 --> 00:30:54,620 Liz, you're a genius! 747 00:30:54,687 --> 00:30:55,988 All right, Liz! 748 00:30:56,822 --> 00:30:57,789 Oh, is that so? 749 00:30:57,856 --> 00:30:58,724 Well, you did two. 750 00:30:58,824 --> 00:31:01,659 Oh, that was so lame. 751 00:31:01,792 --> 00:31:02,660 That was not good. 752 00:31:02,727 --> 00:31:03,661 I've thought of a better... 753 00:31:03,794 --> 00:31:04,562 Are you all left-handed? 754 00:31:04,662 --> 00:31:06,164 Oh no, no, no. 755 00:31:06,230 --> 00:31:06,898 Just Jonno. 756 00:31:06,998 --> 00:31:08,065 Just the cool guy. 757 00:31:08,165 --> 00:31:09,466 Just Mr. Cool. 758 00:31:09,532 --> 00:31:10,400 One more time. 759 00:31:10,500 --> 00:31:11,367 Oh, courageous. 760 00:31:11,501 --> 00:31:12,368 Watch this! 761 00:31:12,502 --> 00:31:14,037 Left-handed! 762 00:31:14,170 --> 00:31:14,737 Anna? 763 00:31:20,075 --> 00:31:20,475 Anna? 764 00:31:32,185 --> 00:31:32,418 Anna. 765 00:31:50,200 --> 00:31:53,703 Come on. 766 00:31:53,836 --> 00:31:56,605 I know. 767 00:31:56,705 --> 00:31:59,574 What did you think I was doing? 768 00:31:59,708 --> 00:32:01,742 Playing Candy Crush? 769 00:32:01,877 --> 00:32:03,577 Taking a nap? 770 00:32:03,711 --> 00:32:05,780 Getting high? 771 00:32:05,881 --> 00:32:10,050 Anna, OK. 772 00:32:10,184 --> 00:32:11,051 OK, yeah. 773 00:32:11,185 --> 00:32:12,953 Yes, I did. 774 00:32:13,053 --> 00:32:13,786 I did. 775 00:32:13,887 --> 00:32:15,454 And I'm sorry. 776 00:32:15,554 --> 00:32:16,522 Can you blame me? 777 00:32:16,588 --> 00:32:18,724 Yes, I fucking can blame you. 778 00:32:18,858 --> 00:32:21,559 You never give me a fucking break. 779 00:32:21,626 --> 00:32:25,529 Look, you arrived late, as always, looking like shit. 780 00:32:25,595 --> 00:32:29,399 God, no one even knows where you are half the time. 781 00:32:29,466 --> 00:32:33,736 You disappear for a month eating mushrooms in the desert, 782 00:32:33,803 --> 00:32:35,005 or whatever the hell off the grid 783 00:32:35,105 --> 00:32:37,405 means, just as Mom gets sick, and you 784 00:32:37,472 --> 00:32:40,242 expect me not to be judgmental? 785 00:32:46,080 --> 00:32:48,082 I'm sorry you feel that way. 786 00:32:51,551 --> 00:32:56,956 I just wish that with so little time left, 787 00:32:57,089 --> 00:33:00,592 you made more of an effort for the family. 788 00:33:00,659 --> 00:33:01,559 That's all. 789 00:33:05,897 --> 00:33:06,965 I am going to do that. 790 00:33:12,769 --> 00:33:15,437 You OK? 791 00:33:15,504 --> 00:33:18,340 Yeah. 792 00:33:18,440 --> 00:33:19,274 You sure? 793 00:33:24,612 --> 00:33:28,615 I've made up my mind. 794 00:33:35,354 --> 00:33:38,157 Tomorrow, when they're about to do it, 795 00:33:38,290 --> 00:33:40,993 I'm going to call 9-1-1 and report a suicide attempt. 796 00:33:46,164 --> 00:33:48,365 OK. 797 00:33:48,465 --> 00:33:51,500 Um, shit. 798 00:33:56,105 --> 00:33:58,807 OK, that's... are you sure? 799 00:33:58,941 --> 00:34:00,475 Because she says she's ready. 800 00:34:00,609 --> 00:34:02,543 I'm not ready. 801 00:34:02,643 --> 00:34:05,479 She's ready, but I'm not! 802 00:34:05,613 --> 00:34:06,348 I don't know. 803 00:34:06,480 --> 00:34:08,315 It's too fucked up. 804 00:34:08,381 --> 00:34:10,150 I thought you were against this too. 805 00:34:12,986 --> 00:34:14,187 What about the effing vegans? 806 00:34:14,320 --> 00:34:15,520 You want me to take care of that? 807 00:34:15,587 --> 00:34:16,788 Oh yeah. 808 00:34:16,856 --> 00:34:18,657 Well, maybe some sweet potato or something. 809 00:34:18,790 --> 00:34:21,059 I don't know. 810 00:34:21,159 --> 00:34:21,559 Potato. 811 00:34:24,562 --> 00:34:26,796 That it? 812 00:34:26,864 --> 00:34:28,332 Yeah, that's it. 813 00:34:28,465 --> 00:34:30,001 What? 814 00:34:30,067 --> 00:34:31,334 The magic potion. 815 00:34:39,707 --> 00:34:43,710 I mean, where is it from? 816 00:34:43,845 --> 00:34:46,381 Google. 817 00:34:46,513 --> 00:34:49,049 How you know it's going to work? 818 00:34:49,116 --> 00:34:50,183 Trust me, darlings, there's enough 819 00:34:50,250 --> 00:34:52,185 pentobarbital in that little package 820 00:34:52,252 --> 00:34:56,488 to kill off half of Manhattan. 821 00:34:56,554 --> 00:34:59,658 As you can imagine, everything's been organized 822 00:34:59,724 --> 00:35:01,659 within an inch of its life. 823 00:35:01,725 --> 00:35:02,394 Yep. 824 00:35:02,526 --> 00:35:04,662 I can imagine. 825 00:35:04,728 --> 00:35:06,865 It is a little insane. 826 00:35:06,931 --> 00:35:08,032 No, no, no, it's not. 827 00:35:08,165 --> 00:35:11,035 It's... the people in this situation, 828 00:35:11,168 --> 00:35:13,870 those that choose to end their lives prematurely, 829 00:35:14,003 --> 00:35:18,374 are characteristically not insane, not even... 830 00:35:18,440 --> 00:35:19,573 not even depressed. 831 00:35:19,707 --> 00:35:26,546 They're usually intelligent, articulate, analytical, 832 00:35:26,680 --> 00:35:29,549 and deeply, deeply controlling. 833 00:35:36,389 --> 00:35:36,956 Thanks. 834 00:35:40,893 --> 00:35:43,294 Sweet potatoes. 835 00:35:43,394 --> 00:35:43,962 On it. 836 00:35:47,731 --> 00:35:48,565 OK. 837 00:35:54,271 --> 00:35:58,407 This is nice, doing Christmas. 838 00:35:58,540 --> 00:36:00,909 Yeah, I guess. 839 00:36:00,976 --> 00:36:03,912 I like this, spending time together, 840 00:36:03,979 --> 00:36:07,547 man and boy in the wild. 841 00:36:07,613 --> 00:36:09,917 we should do more of this. 842 00:36:10,050 --> 00:36:12,419 Sure. 843 00:36:12,552 --> 00:36:15,121 Hey, here's your fun fact about trees. 844 00:36:15,254 --> 00:36:17,090 Do you know there's more non-deciduous trees 845 00:36:17,223 --> 00:36:20,258 in Norway than the entire continent of Africa? 846 00:36:20,392 --> 00:36:21,792 That's fascinating, Dad. 847 00:36:21,927 --> 00:36:24,762 Isn't it? 'Cause... 848 00:36:24,895 --> 00:36:25,795 here we go. 849 00:36:25,930 --> 00:36:28,332 A lot of good choices over here. 850 00:36:28,432 --> 00:36:28,933 Yeah. 851 00:36:29,000 --> 00:36:31,600 Fantastic. 852 00:36:31,667 --> 00:36:33,669 Oh, how about this one? 853 00:36:33,769 --> 00:36:34,337 That one? 854 00:36:34,437 --> 00:36:35,438 Yeah. 855 00:36:35,504 --> 00:36:36,739 It's kind of small. 856 00:36:36,804 --> 00:36:37,439 How about this one? 857 00:36:40,976 --> 00:36:42,444 OK. 858 00:36:42,510 --> 00:36:44,278 Good. 859 00:36:44,412 --> 00:36:46,347 Good option. 860 00:36:46,447 --> 00:36:48,515 Here we go. 861 00:36:49,983 --> 00:36:50,616 Whoa. 862 00:36:50,683 --> 00:36:51,284 Fuck. 863 00:36:51,351 --> 00:36:52,119 You OK? 864 00:36:52,185 --> 00:36:53,786 Sh... yeah, I... 865 00:36:53,920 --> 00:36:54,587 You sure? 866 00:36:54,653 --> 00:36:55,687 No, I'm good. 867 00:36:55,787 --> 00:36:56,489 I'm good. 868 00:36:56,621 --> 00:36:59,091 Yeah. 869 00:36:59,158 --> 00:37:04,262 I'm just, uh, used to a different kind of axe. 870 00:37:06,697 --> 00:37:07,797 Think that's enough? 871 00:37:07,931 --> 00:37:09,099 We need something else in this. 872 00:37:09,166 --> 00:37:10,334 How about rosemary for these? 873 00:37:10,467 --> 00:37:11,368 - Do you think maybe... - Rosemary's great. 874 00:37:11,468 --> 00:37:12,668 Does that really go with beef? 875 00:37:12,801 --> 00:37:14,137 Oh, definitely. 876 00:37:14,270 --> 00:37:17,539 Uh, honey, what can I do for you? 877 00:37:17,639 --> 00:37:18,474 I'm really... I'm fine. 878 00:37:18,607 --> 00:37:19,041 I'm fine. 879 00:37:19,141 --> 00:37:20,042 It'll wear off. 880 00:37:20,142 --> 00:37:21,309 Honey, come on, seriously. 881 00:37:21,376 --> 00:37:22,511 What about some... you should sit down. 882 00:37:22,643 --> 00:37:23,211 Maybe some ice? 883 00:37:23,311 --> 00:37:24,812 Maybe some frozen peas? 884 00:37:24,945 --> 00:37:26,013 Oh, yeah. OK. 885 00:37:26,147 --> 00:37:26,881 - That's... - Thanks for being so helpful. 886 00:37:26,981 --> 00:37:27,680 That's OK. 887 00:37:27,815 --> 00:37:28,648 OK. 888 00:37:28,782 --> 00:37:29,316 Are you really suffering? 889 00:37:29,383 --> 00:37:30,151 Oh, no. 890 00:37:30,217 --> 00:37:31,284 I'm... I'm... really, it's fine. 891 00:37:38,023 --> 00:37:41,659 I offered to help. 892 00:37:41,726 --> 00:37:43,861 I mean, it's not funny, but it's pretty funny. 893 00:37:43,995 --> 00:37:44,962 Don't laugh at your father. 894 00:37:45,029 --> 00:37:46,064 It is kind of funny. 895 00:37:46,164 --> 00:37:47,131 I don't even really need these. 896 00:37:47,198 --> 00:37:48,665 Jonathan? 897 00:37:48,731 --> 00:37:50,067 Yeah? 898 00:37:50,167 --> 00:37:50,666 - Do you wanna help? - I could cut these up. 899 00:37:50,801 --> 00:37:52,069 Sure. 900 00:37:52,169 --> 00:37:56,172 What about... how about a glass of wine? 901 00:37:56,238 --> 00:37:57,506 So why don't you start hanging. 902 00:37:57,639 --> 00:38:00,076 And if you put anything where I don't like it, 903 00:38:00,176 --> 00:38:01,742 I will yell at you. 904 00:38:01,843 --> 00:38:02,410 OK. 905 00:38:07,314 --> 00:38:09,983 So are you going to give me some super important life advice 906 00:38:10,050 --> 00:38:11,751 now? 907 00:38:11,852 --> 00:38:14,554 Nah. 908 00:38:14,686 --> 00:38:16,389 Old people are supposed to be insightful 909 00:38:16,522 --> 00:38:20,392 and, you know, pass on your experiences 910 00:38:20,525 --> 00:38:22,760 so I remember them at crucial moments in my life. 911 00:38:22,861 --> 00:38:24,262 Oh, well, we old people are just 912 00:38:24,362 --> 00:38:26,729 pretending to be insightful to give you the impression 913 00:38:26,864 --> 00:38:34,037 that life adds up to something meaningful and comprehensible. 914 00:38:34,170 --> 00:38:34,871 It works. 915 00:38:35,004 --> 00:38:35,538 Hmm. 916 00:38:38,874 --> 00:38:40,943 Actually, I think the... 917 00:38:41,043 --> 00:38:42,578 the trick is you just show up, and you 918 00:38:42,709 --> 00:38:44,112 get life your best shot. 919 00:38:44,212 --> 00:38:49,682 Although handwritten thank-you notes and being on time 920 00:38:49,748 --> 00:38:50,951 don't hurt. 921 00:38:51,051 --> 00:38:51,750 Got it. 922 00:38:55,187 --> 00:38:56,055 Hmm. 923 00:38:56,122 --> 00:38:58,390 Your mom made this one. 924 00:38:58,457 --> 00:38:58,858 Cool. 925 00:39:08,799 --> 00:39:10,968 So is there anything that I should know about you 926 00:39:11,068 --> 00:39:12,302 that the rest of the family is going 927 00:39:12,402 --> 00:39:15,571 to find out in the future? 928 00:39:15,670 --> 00:39:16,873 I don't know. 929 00:39:16,939 --> 00:39:20,108 Do you wanna have kids? 930 00:39:20,242 --> 00:39:20,909 Yeah, I think so. 931 00:39:20,976 --> 00:39:23,044 Are you gay? 932 00:39:23,111 --> 00:39:23,744 No. 933 00:39:23,879 --> 00:39:24,479 Trans? 934 00:39:24,579 --> 00:39:25,479 No. 935 00:39:25,579 --> 00:39:26,580 Anything else I don't know about yet? 936 00:39:26,713 --> 00:39:27,781 No, sorry. 937 00:39:36,089 --> 00:39:37,289 What do you think you want to be? 938 00:39:43,828 --> 00:39:44,595 I want to be an actor. 939 00:39:48,432 --> 00:39:49,765 Wow. 940 00:39:49,900 --> 00:39:56,172 Well, do they know about that? 941 00:39:56,272 --> 00:39:59,808 Um, nobody knows about that, except now you do. 942 00:40:03,111 --> 00:40:07,915 Well, I will take your secret to my grave. 943 00:41:19,040 --> 00:41:20,342 You're doing great. 944 00:41:24,812 --> 00:41:27,514 Wow, smells amazing. 945 00:41:27,648 --> 00:41:29,917 That is a tremendous tie, Michael. 946 00:41:30,017 --> 00:41:30,850 Thank you. 947 00:41:30,917 --> 00:41:32,852 It is a tremendous tie. 948 00:41:32,986 --> 00:41:35,021 Hmm? 949 00:41:35,088 --> 00:41:36,089 Where is she? 950 00:41:36,189 --> 00:41:37,856 Oh, she'll be here. 951 00:41:42,760 --> 00:41:43,661 Jen? 952 00:41:43,728 --> 00:41:44,528 Thank you. 953 00:41:44,595 --> 00:41:45,062 Hmm. 954 00:41:45,196 --> 00:41:46,530 Short measures. 955 00:41:46,664 --> 00:41:47,064 Michael? 956 00:41:47,198 --> 00:41:48,932 Thank you. 957 00:41:49,032 --> 00:41:51,501 Hmm. 958 00:41:51,568 --> 00:41:52,869 Mm. 959 00:41:52,936 --> 00:41:54,070 I think I might go check. 960 00:41:54,204 --> 00:41:54,770 Hi. 961 00:41:59,508 --> 00:42:04,078 So when do we eat? 962 00:42:04,212 --> 00:42:04,779 You look amazing. 963 00:42:04,879 --> 00:42:05,280 Fantastic. 964 00:42:06,713 --> 00:42:08,215 Wow. 965 00:42:08,282 --> 00:42:09,283 Mom, you look... 966 00:42:09,383 --> 00:42:10,117 Thank you. 967 00:42:10,217 --> 00:42:11,685 ...so beautiful. 968 00:42:11,752 --> 00:42:13,953 Thanks very much. 969 00:42:14,053 --> 00:42:14,720 Everybody ready? 970 00:42:14,854 --> 00:42:15,288 Emmenthaler... 971 00:42:15,388 --> 00:42:16,022 Hang on, wait. 972 00:42:16,789 --> 00:42:17,556 It's um... 973 00:42:17,623 --> 00:42:18,723 No, it's on the front, yeah. 974 00:42:18,790 --> 00:42:19,759 - Let's try that again. - OK, ready? 975 00:42:19,891 --> 00:42:20,558 Everyone say cheese. 976 00:42:20,692 --> 00:42:21,393 All right. Here we go. 977 00:42:21,526 --> 00:42:22,193 I think so, yeah. 978 00:42:22,260 --> 00:42:22,927 Emmenthaler! 979 00:42:23,061 --> 00:42:23,561 Emmenthaler! 980 00:42:24,928 --> 00:42:26,063 Good, good. 981 00:42:26,130 --> 00:42:27,264 - What's Emmenthaler? - It's cheese. 982 00:42:27,398 --> 00:42:28,299 - Paul, did you get the tie? - Oh, Dad? 983 00:42:28,399 --> 00:42:29,566 Could we get one with you in it? 984 00:42:29,633 --> 00:42:32,035 Maybe Liz, would you mind if we... 985 00:42:32,101 --> 00:42:32,735 Of course. 986 00:42:32,802 --> 00:42:33,403 OK. 987 00:42:33,536 --> 00:42:34,570 Good idea, Jennifer. 988 00:42:34,704 --> 00:42:35,238 Oh, yeah. 989 00:42:35,371 --> 00:42:37,072 Just a family photo. 990 00:42:37,139 --> 00:42:38,407 Merry Christmas. 991 00:42:38,540 --> 00:42:39,541 Merry Christmas. 992 00:42:39,608 --> 00:42:41,810 That was a good one. 993 00:42:41,910 --> 00:42:44,078 Yes. 994 00:42:44,145 --> 00:42:45,046 You got it? 995 00:42:45,112 --> 00:42:46,080 Right, sit. 996 00:42:46,147 --> 00:42:48,149 Let's, um, let's try this wine. 997 00:42:48,249 --> 00:42:49,449 I'm going to make the toast. 998 00:42:49,582 --> 00:42:51,251 Oh, there's a surprise. 999 00:42:54,953 --> 00:43:00,825 To wonderful life. 1000 00:43:00,925 --> 00:43:02,560 To wonderful life. 1001 00:43:05,630 --> 00:43:06,798 Mm. 1002 00:43:06,930 --> 00:43:07,998 Mm. 1003 00:43:08,098 --> 00:43:09,166 Wow. 1004 00:43:09,299 --> 00:43:10,467 So this is, uh, Gevrey Chambertin. 1005 00:43:10,600 --> 00:43:11,968 It's a red burgundy. 1006 00:43:12,102 --> 00:43:13,336 It's a French pinot noir. 1007 00:43:13,436 --> 00:43:14,470 Mm, mm, mm. 1008 00:43:14,603 --> 00:43:16,105 I can taste sunshine. 1009 00:43:16,172 --> 00:43:17,106 Good sunshine, eh? 1010 00:43:17,239 --> 00:43:18,140 Oh, yes. 1011 00:43:18,274 --> 00:43:18,940 Jonathan, um, you want to try? 1012 00:43:19,074 --> 00:43:19,641 This is amazing. 1013 00:43:19,775 --> 00:43:20,642 Yeah. 1014 00:43:20,776 --> 00:43:21,777 Oh, no, no. 1015 00:43:21,843 --> 00:43:23,945 He... he... he won't. 1016 00:43:24,079 --> 00:43:26,113 I've had wine before. 1017 00:43:26,180 --> 00:43:27,681 When? 1018 00:43:27,782 --> 00:43:29,083 Mm. 1019 00:43:29,149 --> 00:43:30,784 Well, it's illegal, so. 1020 00:43:30,850 --> 00:43:31,451 Yeah. 1021 00:43:31,584 --> 00:43:32,352 You're not getting any. 1022 00:43:32,452 --> 00:43:33,920 So is killing Grandma. 1023 00:43:33,986 --> 00:43:35,988 Ooh, nice comeback, kiddo. 1024 00:43:36,122 --> 00:43:36,855 Oh shit. 1025 00:43:37,656 --> 00:43:38,457 Whoa. 1026 00:43:38,590 --> 00:43:39,991 Very smart. 1027 00:43:40,125 --> 00:43:43,762 You're going to make an excellent lawyer someday. 1028 00:43:43,829 --> 00:43:46,931 Actually, I'm going to be an actor. 1029 00:43:46,997 --> 00:43:47,799 An actor? 1030 00:43:47,932 --> 00:43:50,300 Yeah. 1031 00:43:50,367 --> 00:43:52,702 And isn't that a damn fine thing? 1032 00:43:52,803 --> 00:43:53,970 It is. 1033 00:43:54,037 --> 00:43:55,537 Well, there's plenty of time to think about it, so. 1034 00:43:55,637 --> 00:43:56,840 I don't need to think about it. 1035 00:43:56,972 --> 00:43:59,041 I know it. 1036 00:43:59,141 --> 00:43:59,809 Actually, yeah. 1037 00:43:59,875 --> 00:44:01,042 I... I think... 1038 00:44:01,142 --> 00:44:02,677 I think Jonathan may have written a little something 1039 00:44:02,811 --> 00:44:03,277 for his grandma. 1040 00:44:03,344 --> 00:44:04,045 - What? - Yeah. 1041 00:44:04,145 --> 00:44:04,979 Really? 1042 00:44:05,046 --> 00:44:05,848 Dude, why would you... 1043 00:44:05,980 --> 00:44:06,980 Jonno, that's great. 1044 00:44:07,047 --> 00:44:08,348 - Oh Jonathan, I'm honored. - No, please. 1045 00:44:08,482 --> 00:44:09,316 - You wrote something? - That's great. 1046 00:44:09,383 --> 00:44:10,150 - Can we hear it? - Jonno. 1047 00:44:10,217 --> 00:44:10,984 It's like a rap. 1048 00:44:11,051 --> 00:44:11,985 It's kind of rough. 1049 00:44:12,119 --> 00:44:13,319 I don't want to do it right now. 1050 00:44:13,386 --> 00:44:14,821 What are you waiting for let me hear it. 1051 00:44:14,954 --> 00:44:15,321 Well, come on. 1052 00:44:15,454 --> 00:44:16,155 Let's... 1053 00:44:16,288 --> 00:44:16,889 Go for it, dude. 1054 00:44:16,989 --> 00:44:17,390 OK. 1055 00:44:17,490 --> 00:44:18,057 Whatever. 1056 00:44:18,157 --> 00:44:21,159 Yeah, OK. 1057 00:44:21,226 --> 00:44:22,694 Here goes nothing. 1058 00:44:22,828 --> 00:44:23,395 Hit me. 1059 00:44:26,530 --> 00:44:30,734 Family, family, more than a man, it's a clan. 1060 00:44:30,834 --> 00:44:33,903 Sometimes you gotta make a stand, make a plan, 1061 00:44:34,003 --> 00:44:37,672 raise a hand, seize the day, find a way. 1062 00:44:37,740 --> 00:44:40,342 Embrace the solution, make a resolution. 1063 00:44:40,409 --> 00:44:42,410 It's collusion and confusion. 1064 00:44:42,510 --> 00:44:44,478 And everyone thinks they know the right way, 1065 00:44:44,545 --> 00:44:45,814 but things are frightening. 1066 00:44:45,881 --> 00:44:47,915 Thoughts like lightning, emotions heightening. 1067 00:44:48,015 --> 00:44:50,049 Sorrow for tomorrow, and tomorrow time is borrowed. 1068 00:44:50,116 --> 00:44:53,653 Feeling hollow, but better die alive, to strive, 1069 00:44:53,720 --> 00:44:57,356 say goodbye, feeling whole in your soul. 1070 00:44:57,423 --> 00:44:59,391 That's the goal. 1071 00:44:59,525 --> 00:45:01,159 So let it roll. 1072 00:45:02,026 --> 00:45:02,393 Woo! 1073 00:45:02,527 --> 00:45:03,161 That was... 1074 00:45:03,227 --> 00:45:04,028 Yeah! 1075 00:45:04,162 --> 00:45:04,929 ...wonderful! 1076 00:45:05,029 --> 00:45:05,530 Way to go, Jonno. 1077 00:45:05,596 --> 00:45:06,496 Jonno! 1078 00:45:06,563 --> 00:45:08,031 High five! 1079 00:45:08,098 --> 00:45:09,266 Go Jonno! 1080 00:45:09,366 --> 00:45:10,567 Woo! 1081 00:45:10,700 --> 00:45:12,401 Really wonderful. 1082 00:45:12,535 --> 00:45:13,436 Who wants meat? 1083 00:45:13,536 --> 00:45:14,437 Anybody need horseradish? 1084 00:45:14,537 --> 00:45:15,404 I'm the meat guy. 1085 00:45:15,538 --> 00:45:16,172 Meat anyone? 1086 00:45:16,238 --> 00:45:17,039 Any meat? 1087 00:45:17,173 --> 00:45:18,073 No one wants meat? 1088 00:45:18,207 --> 00:45:18,940 Liz, I'll take some. 1089 00:45:22,544 --> 00:45:25,345 20 bites, 20 bites, and then you'll... 1090 00:45:25,412 --> 00:45:26,213 Oh... 1091 00:45:26,346 --> 00:45:27,347 Oh, I wanted that one. 1092 00:45:27,414 --> 00:45:28,215 Potatoes. 1093 00:45:28,348 --> 00:45:29,383 That's all I wanted. 1094 00:45:29,516 --> 00:45:31,584 You've taken the crispy one. 1095 00:45:34,454 --> 00:45:35,388 You need a new joke, Dad. 1096 00:45:35,455 --> 00:45:36,889 With the power of my mind. 1097 00:45:36,955 --> 00:45:37,389 Whoa! 1098 00:45:38,390 --> 00:45:41,426 Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh. 1099 00:45:41,560 --> 00:45:42,693 Please don't laugh. 1100 00:45:42,761 --> 00:45:43,961 Please do not encourage him. 1101 00:45:44,061 --> 00:45:44,695 Jonathan! 1102 00:45:44,763 --> 00:45:45,963 This is really great. 1103 00:45:46,063 --> 00:45:47,866 How does he... no one's watching the spoon. 1104 00:45:47,933 --> 00:45:49,265 Oh no. 1105 00:45:49,399 --> 00:45:50,066 Thank you. 1106 00:45:50,133 --> 00:45:51,067 Very good. 1107 00:45:51,201 --> 00:45:52,937 Jonathan, this one's for you. 1108 00:45:53,069 --> 00:45:55,137 Cool. 1109 00:45:55,237 --> 00:45:55,805 Thanks. 1110 00:45:58,741 --> 00:45:59,141 Hmm. 1111 00:45:59,241 --> 00:46:00,075 What is it? 1112 00:46:00,142 --> 00:46:01,108 A book. 1113 00:46:01,242 --> 00:46:01,944 Yeah. 1114 00:46:02,076 --> 00:46:02,878 Thanks. 1115 00:46:03,711 --> 00:46:05,079 Well done, Jonno. 1116 00:46:05,146 --> 00:46:06,480 What... what's uh... 1117 00:46:06,580 --> 00:46:07,815 It's Rilki. 1118 00:46:07,915 --> 00:46:09,049 Rilke. 1119 00:46:09,115 --> 00:46:10,317 Yeah. 1120 00:46:10,417 --> 00:46:12,786 Yeah. 1121 00:46:12,919 --> 00:46:13,586 Ooh. 1122 00:46:13,720 --> 00:46:14,487 - What? - Whoa. 1123 00:46:14,587 --> 00:46:15,287 What is it? 1124 00:46:15,421 --> 00:46:16,255 $100 bill. 1125 00:46:17,656 --> 00:46:18,924 I've never had one of these. 1126 00:46:19,057 --> 00:46:20,826 How are you supposed to spend it? 1127 00:46:20,926 --> 00:46:22,427 Hookers and blow, of course. 1128 00:46:22,494 --> 00:46:23,294 Yes. 1129 00:46:23,428 --> 00:46:24,428 Do you remember these? 1130 00:46:24,561 --> 00:46:25,229 Yeah. 1131 00:46:25,295 --> 00:46:27,331 Of course I do. 1132 00:46:27,431 --> 00:46:29,233 Thank you. 1133 00:46:29,299 --> 00:46:30,466 Well, tell them. 1134 00:46:30,600 --> 00:46:33,002 Look, it's so beautiful. 1135 00:46:33,102 --> 00:46:35,605 She bought this when we were... where were we? 1136 00:46:35,739 --> 00:46:37,506 We went to that little antique shop. 1137 00:46:37,606 --> 00:46:40,943 Yeah, in... in Venice. 1138 00:46:41,076 --> 00:46:41,643 Really. 1139 00:46:41,777 --> 00:46:42,643 That was a great trip. 1140 00:46:42,777 --> 00:46:43,945 One of the best trips ever. 1141 00:46:44,011 --> 00:46:46,280 She saw this in some antique jeweler's. 1142 00:46:46,347 --> 00:46:47,949 "Imagine who wore this." 1143 00:46:48,082 --> 00:46:50,183 And he thought you were going to be a contessa. 1144 00:46:51,451 --> 00:46:53,453 Well, close. 1145 00:46:53,586 --> 00:46:54,319 Thank you. 1146 00:46:54,453 --> 00:46:55,621 Love you, Liz. 1147 00:46:58,457 --> 00:47:00,859 Oh, wow. 1148 00:47:00,959 --> 00:47:01,626 Oh. 1149 00:47:01,760 --> 00:47:02,961 Do you remember? 1150 00:47:03,127 --> 00:47:04,362 Yeah, I remember this. 1151 00:47:04,462 --> 00:47:05,797 It's Grandma's ring. 1152 00:47:05,931 --> 00:47:08,031 It's the only thing I liked about her. 1153 00:47:10,768 --> 00:47:13,770 That is actually true. 1154 00:47:13,837 --> 00:47:15,304 And I don't blame you, sweetheart. 1155 00:47:15,437 --> 00:47:16,472 She was a nightmare. 1156 00:47:16,539 --> 00:47:18,874 Mm. 1157 00:47:18,974 --> 00:47:19,541 Michael. 1158 00:47:19,641 --> 00:47:20,341 I get a present? 1159 00:47:20,475 --> 00:47:21,810 This is... oh. 1160 00:47:21,944 --> 00:47:24,344 Mhm. 1161 00:47:24,478 --> 00:47:26,146 I had to look all over for this. 1162 00:47:26,213 --> 00:47:26,881 Oh my god! 1163 00:47:26,981 --> 00:47:27,648 That is so good. 1164 00:47:27,782 --> 00:47:29,383 That is so great! 1165 00:47:29,483 --> 00:47:31,617 He's never gonna take that off. 1166 00:47:31,684 --> 00:47:33,052 Oh, that is... 1167 00:47:33,152 --> 00:47:34,788 Oh! 1168 00:47:34,855 --> 00:47:35,288 yeah! 1169 00:47:36,722 --> 00:47:38,223 He's never going to take that off. 1170 00:47:38,323 --> 00:47:39,491 Nor should he. 1171 00:47:39,558 --> 00:47:40,559 What do you think? 1172 00:47:40,659 --> 00:47:41,626 What do you think? 1173 00:47:41,693 --> 00:47:42,894 Oh my god, that is so you. 1174 00:47:42,994 --> 00:47:43,995 Jonathan, I'm going to your parent-teacher 1175 00:47:44,128 --> 00:47:44,996 conference wearing this. 1176 00:47:45,129 --> 00:47:46,363 That is so you. 1177 00:47:46,497 --> 00:47:49,499 This was the first kind of serious piece of jewelry 1178 00:47:49,566 --> 00:47:53,503 that I bought for myself, at your age. 1179 00:47:53,636 --> 00:47:57,072 That's just... this is beautiful. 1180 00:48:00,675 --> 00:48:01,475 Oh, look at that. 1181 00:48:01,542 --> 00:48:03,644 That really suits you. 1182 00:48:03,712 --> 00:48:04,913 Thank you. 1183 00:48:05,013 --> 00:48:05,847 That's... you're welcome, sweetheart. 1184 00:48:05,981 --> 00:48:07,147 I love it. 1185 00:48:07,213 --> 00:48:08,481 I don't know if you already have one of these, 1186 00:48:08,548 --> 00:48:11,752 but you can always use another one. 1187 00:48:11,852 --> 00:48:12,217 Oh... 1188 00:48:13,753 --> 00:48:14,420 Oh my god. 1189 00:48:14,520 --> 00:48:15,387 What is it? 1190 00:48:15,521 --> 00:48:16,056 No, please, no. 1191 00:48:16,188 --> 00:48:16,589 Mom... 1192 00:48:16,689 --> 00:48:17,423 Yeah. 1193 00:48:17,523 --> 00:48:18,523 You need it. 1194 00:48:18,590 --> 00:48:19,657 Put it back in the box. 1195 00:48:19,725 --> 00:48:20,759 Oh, it's a smooth brand. 1196 00:48:20,859 --> 00:48:21,526 Oh, it's your favorite color. 1197 00:48:21,659 --> 00:48:23,161 Oh my god. 1198 00:48:23,227 --> 00:48:24,029 Oh my lord. 1199 00:48:24,094 --> 00:48:24,494 It matches. 1200 00:48:24,561 --> 00:48:25,195 Oh my god. 1201 00:48:25,262 --> 00:48:26,530 It matches. 1202 00:48:26,663 --> 00:48:27,564 Lily, I'm afraid she already has one. 1203 00:48:27,699 --> 00:48:28,833 That's not your only present. 1204 00:48:28,900 --> 00:48:30,034 I want you to have this. 1205 00:48:30,166 --> 00:48:32,268 I've never taken it off since your dad 1206 00:48:32,368 --> 00:48:36,039 gave it to me, 22 years ago. 1207 00:48:36,104 --> 00:48:38,941 Oh. 1208 00:48:39,041 --> 00:48:39,909 Oh, god. 1209 00:48:40,042 --> 00:48:41,877 Thank you. 1210 00:48:45,279 --> 00:48:47,615 OK. 1211 00:48:47,716 --> 00:48:48,381 Thank you. 1212 00:48:48,514 --> 00:48:49,083 You're welcome. 1213 00:48:53,020 --> 00:48:57,056 I think maybe I haven't taken this off in even longer. 1214 00:48:57,189 --> 00:49:01,059 But maybe now it's time to give it to you. 1215 00:49:29,249 --> 00:49:34,654 You belong to somebody new, 1216 00:49:34,755 --> 00:49:42,292 but tonight, you belong to me. 1217 00:49:42,426 --> 00:49:43,427 What's next? 1218 00:49:43,560 --> 00:49:44,561 Wait down... 1219 00:49:44,628 --> 00:49:45,262 No. 1220 00:49:45,329 --> 00:49:46,731 Although. 1221 00:49:46,798 --> 00:49:50,533 Although, although we're apart, 1222 00:49:50,633 --> 00:49:54,469 you're part of my heart. 1223 00:49:54,603 --> 00:49:59,776 But tonight, you belong to me. 1224 00:49:59,909 --> 00:50:02,343 Just to little ol' me. 1225 00:50:02,443 --> 00:50:03,779 Way down... 1226 00:50:03,845 --> 00:50:05,847 Way down upon the stream. 1227 00:50:05,947 --> 00:50:06,579 Stream. 1228 00:50:07,982 --> 00:50:09,784 What fun it is to laugh and sing 1229 00:50:09,917 --> 00:50:11,284 a sleighing song tonight. 1230 00:50:11,351 --> 00:50:15,855 Hey, jingle bells, jingle bells, jingle all the way. 1231 00:50:15,955 --> 00:50:20,125 Oh what fun it is to ride in a one-horse open sleigh, hey! 1232 00:50:24,796 --> 00:50:26,296 Thank you, husband. 1233 00:50:26,430 --> 00:50:27,131 Yeah. 1234 00:50:27,264 --> 00:50:27,932 Thanks, Grandpa. 1235 00:50:27,999 --> 00:50:28,432 Thanks. 1236 00:50:28,498 --> 00:50:29,466 Thanks. 1237 00:50:29,533 --> 00:50:32,501 I could die happy right now. 1238 00:50:32,635 --> 00:50:39,175 So could I. Hm. 1239 00:50:39,307 --> 00:50:39,842 Mm. 1240 00:50:43,343 --> 00:50:45,345 I love these plates. 1241 00:50:45,479 --> 00:50:47,015 Well, you can have them. 1242 00:50:47,148 --> 00:50:48,115 They're yours. 1243 00:50:48,182 --> 00:50:49,817 I'll just do eat out of the pot, then. 1244 00:50:49,883 --> 00:50:51,517 Yeah, with your salt and pepper shaker by your side. 1245 00:50:51,651 --> 00:50:52,351 Oh yeah. 1246 00:50:53,352 --> 00:50:54,453 Yeah, I'd like that. 1247 00:50:54,519 --> 00:50:56,122 I mean, if that's OK with... 1248 00:50:56,189 --> 00:50:58,858 I mean, maybe you could pick something too. 1249 00:50:58,991 --> 00:51:00,357 How about my vinyl? 1250 00:51:00,491 --> 00:51:03,327 You used to love all those R&B records and Nina Simone. 1251 00:51:03,394 --> 00:51:04,863 Yeah. 1252 00:51:04,996 --> 00:51:05,996 You know, maybe we could wait until you're actually dead? 1253 00:51:11,869 --> 00:51:14,336 I think it's time for a joint. 1254 00:51:14,470 --> 00:51:15,004 What? 1255 00:51:15,138 --> 00:51:15,839 Really? 1256 00:51:15,905 --> 00:51:16,973 Oh, what are you looking... 1257 00:51:17,040 --> 00:51:18,573 come on, I was at Woodstock. 1258 00:51:18,674 --> 00:51:19,640 What's the big deal? 1259 00:51:19,708 --> 00:51:20,341 You weren't. 1260 00:51:20,475 --> 00:51:21,210 All right. 1261 00:51:21,342 --> 00:51:22,177 Well, I was nearby. 1262 00:51:22,310 --> 00:51:24,478 I was there in my mind. 1263 00:51:24,544 --> 00:51:25,880 Bullshit. 1264 00:51:26,013 --> 00:51:27,915 Nowadays, you never meet anyone our age 1265 00:51:28,015 --> 00:51:29,050 who wasn't at Woodstock. 1266 00:51:29,183 --> 00:51:29,583 True. 1267 00:51:29,684 --> 00:51:30,851 Allegedly. 1268 00:51:30,984 --> 00:51:32,886 Allegedly, I have some. 1269 00:51:33,019 --> 00:51:34,821 Oh, what kind? 1270 00:51:34,888 --> 00:51:36,521 Just Napa Valley grass. 1271 00:51:36,654 --> 00:51:37,555 Not strong enough. 1272 00:51:37,690 --> 00:51:40,059 Sweetheart, will you get mine? 1273 00:51:40,192 --> 00:51:41,193 What? 1274 00:51:41,326 --> 00:51:42,359 Wait. 1275 00:51:42,493 --> 00:51:45,096 Mom? 1276 00:51:45,196 --> 00:51:46,497 Oh. 1277 00:51:46,563 --> 00:51:52,836 Jonathan, you should never smoke weed unless you're dying. 1278 00:51:52,903 --> 00:51:54,369 OK. 1279 00:51:54,503 --> 00:51:56,038 Or having sex. 1280 00:51:58,174 --> 00:51:59,574 - I already tried it. - What? 1281 00:51:59,709 --> 00:52:00,541 Did you hear that? 1282 00:52:00,608 --> 00:52:01,575 Excuse me? 1283 00:52:01,710 --> 00:52:03,178 What? 1284 00:52:03,245 --> 00:52:06,213 I don't want you to end up like some unfocused pothead who 1285 00:52:06,346 --> 00:52:09,516 just drifts through life staring at the clouds. 1286 00:52:09,582 --> 00:52:11,719 Hey, I'm right here. 1287 00:52:11,786 --> 00:52:13,052 Yeah. 1288 00:52:13,119 --> 00:52:15,789 Well, you're not exactly the perfect role model. 1289 00:52:15,889 --> 00:52:17,422 And you are? 1290 00:52:20,058 --> 00:52:21,860 Just in time. 1291 00:52:21,927 --> 00:52:22,627 Oh, come on, Dad. 1292 00:52:22,728 --> 00:52:23,294 Oh my god. 1293 00:52:23,394 --> 00:52:24,394 Oh my god. 1294 00:52:24,528 --> 00:52:26,396 Thank you. 1295 00:52:26,530 --> 00:52:27,965 Great. 1296 00:52:28,065 --> 00:52:29,033 Great. 1297 00:52:29,100 --> 00:52:31,735 Let's all get stoned. 1298 00:52:31,802 --> 00:52:35,571 Jesus, what is this stuff? 1299 00:52:35,638 --> 00:52:36,571 You like? 1300 00:52:36,705 --> 00:52:37,472 Are you kidding me? 1301 00:52:37,572 --> 00:52:38,540 Yes. 1302 00:52:38,606 --> 00:52:40,276 That is some next level shit. 1303 00:52:41,309 --> 00:52:42,944 Ooh. 1304 00:52:43,077 --> 00:52:43,544 Mm. 1305 00:52:43,610 --> 00:52:44,245 Are you sure? 1306 00:52:44,311 --> 00:52:46,080 Mhm. 1307 00:52:46,214 --> 00:52:46,815 OK. 1308 00:52:46,915 --> 00:52:50,651 It's been a long time. 1309 00:52:50,751 --> 00:52:51,652 Gotta hold the smoke. 1310 00:52:51,752 --> 00:52:53,720 Count to 10. 1311 00:52:53,787 --> 00:52:57,790 Hey, I too was at Woodstock, metaphorically. 1312 00:52:58,925 --> 00:53:02,828 OK. 1313 00:53:02,928 --> 00:53:03,561 Maybe I wasn't. 1314 00:53:06,664 --> 00:53:08,498 OK. 1315 00:53:08,598 --> 00:53:09,332 Come on. 1316 00:53:09,432 --> 00:53:10,466 Oh. Go Jen. 1317 00:53:10,533 --> 00:53:11,769 No way. 1318 00:53:11,835 --> 00:53:12,601 We're here to do something together, right? 1319 00:53:12,735 --> 00:53:13,269 Yes. 1320 00:53:19,741 --> 00:53:20,309 Wow. 1321 00:53:21,342 --> 00:53:22,811 Hold it. 1322 00:53:22,945 --> 00:53:23,611 Oh my god. 1323 00:53:23,679 --> 00:53:24,245 Hold it. 1324 00:53:31,617 --> 00:53:33,586 When will I feel it? 1325 00:53:33,653 --> 00:53:34,453 In a little... 1326 00:53:34,520 --> 00:53:36,288 just a little bit. 1327 00:53:36,354 --> 00:53:36,789 Whoa. 1328 00:53:36,856 --> 00:53:37,990 Yeah. 1329 00:53:38,123 --> 00:53:39,291 Just... just chill. 1330 00:53:39,424 --> 00:53:40,259 You OK, Mom? 1331 00:53:40,326 --> 00:53:41,593 Just chill. 1332 00:53:41,660 --> 00:53:43,560 You good? 1333 00:53:43,661 --> 00:53:44,628 I don't know. 1334 00:53:44,762 --> 00:53:46,297 I'm... 1335 00:53:48,665 --> 00:53:50,701 Oh no. 1336 00:53:52,269 --> 00:53:53,369 Oh my god. 1337 00:53:57,206 --> 00:53:59,808 We are terrible parents. 1338 00:53:59,875 --> 00:54:01,609 Wait, stop. 1339 00:54:01,676 --> 00:54:02,677 Does it have tobacco in it? 1340 00:54:02,811 --> 00:54:04,312 It's just Michael quit smoking. 1341 00:54:05,680 --> 00:54:06,714 No, it's all right. 1342 00:54:06,814 --> 00:54:07,480 It's fine. 1343 00:54:08,514 --> 00:54:10,351 I'm sure it's fine. 1344 00:54:10,483 --> 00:54:11,318 OK. 1345 00:54:11,451 --> 00:54:15,221 You know, I'm really not that bossy. 1346 00:54:15,321 --> 00:54:18,522 I'm... I'm actually very sweet. 1347 00:54:18,657 --> 00:54:19,892 Yes, you are. 1348 00:54:26,529 --> 00:54:28,833 Come on, pass it on, Dad. 1349 00:54:28,900 --> 00:54:29,833 Yeah, I'm sorry. 1350 00:54:29,900 --> 00:54:30,667 The other way. 1351 00:54:33,803 --> 00:54:35,305 You know, I know... 1352 00:54:35,372 --> 00:54:37,538 I know you guys already talked about it, but I wasn't there. 1353 00:54:37,673 --> 00:54:43,477 And uh, anyway, I just wanted to say that I understand. 1354 00:54:43,543 --> 00:54:45,680 Well, thank you, Chris. 1355 00:54:45,747 --> 00:54:46,480 It's just weird. 1356 00:54:49,683 --> 00:54:57,356 You're here now, but tomorrow, you'll be dead. 1357 00:54:57,422 --> 00:54:58,691 And we know. 1358 00:54:58,824 --> 00:55:00,759 But I'm here now. 1359 00:55:00,859 --> 00:55:04,095 I'm really here now. 1360 00:55:04,195 --> 00:55:07,831 And you know, once we set a date, actually, 1361 00:55:07,898 --> 00:55:10,401 it's funny, but it... it... 1362 00:55:10,533 --> 00:55:12,035 I stopped worrying about dying, and I 1363 00:55:12,168 --> 00:55:13,937 could focus more on living. 1364 00:55:14,037 --> 00:55:14,704 Aren't you afraid? 1365 00:55:17,373 --> 00:55:18,774 Are you? 1366 00:55:18,874 --> 00:55:21,710 Well, I'm not dying tomorrow. 1367 00:55:24,511 --> 00:55:25,746 Well, at some point. 1368 00:55:25,880 --> 00:55:27,048 Yes. 1369 00:55:27,114 --> 00:55:29,683 I mean, we all know that it's... 1370 00:55:29,749 --> 00:55:31,184 it's going to happen. 1371 00:55:31,251 --> 00:55:34,087 I just didn't know that I would know that I would know 1372 00:55:34,220 --> 00:55:35,721 when it was actually happening. 1373 00:55:36,889 --> 00:55:38,023 No, but isn't that the point? 1374 00:55:38,090 --> 00:55:42,559 I mean, we sort of... we forget in order 1375 00:55:42,694 --> 00:55:44,062 to just get on with living. 1376 00:55:44,195 --> 00:55:46,230 But the living is so much better if you don't forget, 1377 00:55:46,364 --> 00:55:48,732 because then you don't get caught up in the bullshit. 1378 00:55:48,799 --> 00:55:53,637 And then you can take a risk, and you can bend some rules. 1379 00:55:53,736 --> 00:55:55,237 You know? 1380 00:55:55,304 --> 00:55:58,908 The days go by too slowly, and the years go by too fast. 1381 00:55:58,975 --> 00:55:59,874 Bingo. 1382 00:55:59,941 --> 00:56:00,709 That's so cool. 1383 00:56:00,775 --> 00:56:01,710 Wow. 1384 00:56:01,776 --> 00:56:03,979 It's Magnetic Fields. 1385 00:56:04,079 --> 00:56:05,113 What's that? 1386 00:56:05,246 --> 00:56:06,479 It's music, Dad. 1387 00:56:06,579 --> 00:56:07,580 Oh. 1388 00:56:07,648 --> 00:56:09,450 Look, I am... 1389 00:56:09,582 --> 00:56:18,757 I am here now, and I'm full of good food and incredible wine. 1390 00:56:18,890 --> 00:56:27,431 And I'm satisfied and happy. 1391 00:56:27,497 --> 00:56:36,338 I have my... my guy, my grandson, the actor/rapper, 1392 00:56:36,438 --> 00:56:45,113 my oldest friend, and the two kids that I am so proud of. 1393 00:56:45,179 --> 00:56:47,115 And the ones that they love. 1394 00:56:52,285 --> 00:56:55,321 The two kids I'm so proud of? 1395 00:56:55,454 --> 00:56:56,422 Yes. 1396 00:56:56,489 --> 00:56:59,657 Why would you be proud of us? 1397 00:56:59,791 --> 00:57:01,126 Why wouldn't I be proud of you? 1398 00:57:01,192 --> 00:57:05,330 I mean, you barely know us. 1399 00:57:05,463 --> 00:57:06,430 What? 1400 00:57:06,497 --> 00:57:08,198 What's that supposed to mean? 1401 00:57:08,298 --> 00:57:14,937 Oh, sweetie, I raised you to be strong and independent, 1402 00:57:15,004 --> 00:57:16,839 and you are. 1403 00:57:16,973 --> 00:57:17,939 Really? 1404 00:57:18,006 --> 00:57:18,673 Really. 1405 00:57:18,807 --> 00:57:20,475 No we're not. 1406 00:57:20,609 --> 00:57:21,476 Anna... 1407 00:57:21,542 --> 00:57:23,145 Look, I'm sorry to break it to you, 1408 00:57:23,211 --> 00:57:25,646 but you have two daughters who are, in their own way, 1409 00:57:25,780 --> 00:57:26,981 seriously fucked up. 1410 00:57:27,114 --> 00:57:28,382 What are you talking about? 1411 00:57:28,482 --> 00:57:30,050 I don't think that that is necessarily the case... 1412 00:57:30,150 --> 00:57:32,185 Look, I might be crazy, but I'm not stupid. 1413 00:57:32,318 --> 00:57:34,120 What are you talking about? 1414 00:57:34,187 --> 00:57:35,621 OK. 1415 00:57:35,687 --> 00:57:36,789 Remember when Chris and I went away for a month? 1416 00:57:36,855 --> 00:57:38,023 Yeah. 1417 00:57:38,090 --> 00:57:40,659 Well, I wasn't living in the desert. 1418 00:57:40,793 --> 00:57:42,460 Where... we were you? 1419 00:57:42,527 --> 00:57:44,028 I was in a psychiatric hospital, 1420 00:57:44,162 --> 00:57:45,630 because I tried to kill myself. 1421 00:57:45,696 --> 00:57:46,831 Jesus Christ. 1422 00:57:46,898 --> 00:57:48,665 I can't fucking believe you. 1423 00:57:48,732 --> 00:57:49,533 Oh my god. 1424 00:57:49,666 --> 00:57:50,834 Oh, please. 1425 00:57:50,967 --> 00:57:52,669 Did she threaten to cut her wrist with a plastic knife 1426 00:57:52,736 --> 00:57:54,003 - so she could get some attention? - Shut the fuck up, Jennifer. 1427 00:57:54,136 --> 00:57:55,404 Because that's is what she does. 1428 00:57:55,504 --> 00:57:56,338 Always. 1429 00:57:56,472 --> 00:57:57,540 You didn't raise us to be strong. 1430 00:57:57,673 --> 00:57:59,208 And everybody gets sucked in. 1431 00:57:59,341 --> 00:58:00,642 You just raised us not to bother you with weakness. 1432 00:58:00,708 --> 00:58:01,976 Oh my god, stop. 1433 00:58:02,043 --> 00:58:04,379 You're like Martha fucking Stewart, Mom. 1434 00:58:04,512 --> 00:58:05,712 Anna. 1435 00:58:05,846 --> 00:58:07,247 What a great mom you wanted everybody to think you 1436 00:58:07,347 --> 00:58:07,714 were. 1437 00:58:07,848 --> 00:58:08,849 Anna. 1438 00:58:08,982 --> 00:58:10,217 Be creative was your mantra. 1439 00:58:10,350 --> 00:58:11,717 Be whatever you want to be. 1440 00:58:11,851 --> 00:58:13,986 Just don't disturb the grownups while you're doing it, 1441 00:58:14,053 --> 00:58:15,354 and be sure to clean up afterwards. 1442 00:58:15,488 --> 00:58:16,522 OK, stop. Dad. 1443 00:58:16,588 --> 00:58:17,190 OK. 1444 00:58:17,323 --> 00:58:18,190 Stupid little fucking... 1445 00:58:18,323 --> 00:58:18,990 Jen... Jennifer, don't. 1446 00:58:19,057 --> 00:58:19,691 Don't, don't. 1447 00:58:19,825 --> 00:58:20,725 Stop, stop. 1448 00:58:20,859 --> 00:58:21,526 - Dad! - Stop. 1449 00:58:21,593 --> 00:58:21,860 Dad. 1450 00:58:42,910 --> 00:58:44,212 I want to go to bed. 1451 00:58:44,345 --> 00:58:46,380 I think I have to go to bed now. 1452 00:58:50,684 --> 00:58:52,752 Sweetheart, it's all right. 1453 00:58:59,791 --> 00:59:00,692 I didn't... 1454 00:59:04,729 --> 00:59:06,230 It's all right. 1455 00:59:16,572 --> 00:59:18,306 Let's clear... clear the table. 1456 00:59:57,306 --> 01:00:00,341 She wants to be alone for a little bit. 1457 01:00:05,913 --> 01:00:06,446 What? 1458 01:00:07,915 --> 01:00:08,782 She didn't overstate it. 1459 01:00:08,916 --> 01:00:11,618 She's lucky that she survived. 1460 01:00:11,751 --> 01:00:14,787 Of course that's how she describes it, because she 1461 01:00:14,854 --> 01:00:17,789 wants maximum sympathy. 1462 01:00:17,856 --> 01:00:19,090 All right. 1463 01:00:19,157 --> 01:00:22,994 What do you say you and I go have a talk? 1464 01:00:23,128 --> 01:00:24,161 Come on. 1465 01:00:26,830 --> 01:00:28,766 Why wouldn't she tell us? 1466 01:00:28,832 --> 01:00:30,466 Well, she said you'd say 1467 01:00:30,601 --> 01:00:32,802 it was about attention getting. 1468 01:00:32,936 --> 01:00:37,640 That you'd say it was about maximum sympathy. 1469 01:00:37,706 --> 01:00:38,641 And I don't know. 1470 01:00:38,774 --> 01:00:40,610 Maybe you're right. 1471 01:00:40,677 --> 01:00:42,343 But then I gotta ask, what made her 1472 01:00:42,476 --> 01:00:44,212 need that kind of attention? 1473 01:00:51,619 --> 01:00:53,687 We'd been on and off for a while. 1474 01:00:53,819 --> 01:00:55,788 I wasn't sure, she wasn't sure, the usual shit. 1475 01:00:55,854 --> 01:01:02,193 But when the ambulance came, I couldn't even 1476 01:01:02,327 --> 01:01:06,363 bring myself to get in with her, hold her hand, 1477 01:01:06,496 --> 01:01:08,198 whatever, just be with her. 1478 01:01:10,867 --> 01:01:13,502 All I wanted to do was run, and so that's what I did. 1479 01:01:17,372 --> 01:01:19,007 Is she OK now? 1480 01:01:19,140 --> 01:01:20,542 Is she OK? 1481 01:01:20,676 --> 01:01:21,810 No. 1482 01:01:21,876 --> 01:01:22,578 Well, she's bipolar. 1483 01:01:25,179 --> 01:01:28,315 What does that even mean? 1484 01:01:28,382 --> 01:01:30,416 It means a shitload of meds, forever. 1485 01:01:39,024 --> 01:01:42,860 So why aren't you running now? 1486 01:01:42,927 --> 01:01:45,529 I don't know. 1487 01:01:45,664 --> 01:01:46,565 I like her. 1488 01:01:49,332 --> 01:01:51,101 I like her family. 1489 01:01:57,206 --> 01:02:00,208 Look, I... 1490 01:02:00,275 --> 01:02:01,376 What? 1491 01:02:01,442 --> 01:02:03,111 Your mom seems so sure. 1492 01:02:03,211 --> 01:02:04,412 And... and... and I really... 1493 01:02:04,545 --> 01:02:06,280 I really do believe that it's her decision. 1494 01:02:09,383 --> 01:02:10,884 What are you trying to say? 1495 01:02:11,018 --> 01:02:18,356 Anna's not exactly well, and... and so I don't want 1496 01:02:18,423 --> 01:02:20,693 Anna's perspective to ruin... 1497 01:02:20,760 --> 01:02:22,561 Say it. 1498 01:02:22,695 --> 01:02:24,061 Anna's going to call 9-1-1 when 1499 01:02:24,128 --> 01:02:25,062 your mom is taking the pills. 1500 01:02:32,368 --> 01:02:32,935 Wait! 1501 01:02:33,069 --> 01:02:35,138 Wait! 1502 01:02:35,238 --> 01:02:36,405 What the hell are you thinking? 1503 01:02:36,538 --> 01:02:38,708 You let her do what she wants to do. 1504 01:02:38,775 --> 01:02:40,942 You got that? 1505 01:02:41,076 --> 01:02:42,243 You let her do what she wants. 1506 01:02:42,310 --> 01:02:44,045 You cannot make that call. 1507 01:02:44,111 --> 01:02:44,812 Do you understand me? 1508 01:02:44,912 --> 01:02:45,546 I'm not... 1509 01:02:45,614 --> 01:02:46,280 Tell me you understand. 1510 01:02:46,414 --> 01:02:47,280 I'm not ready. 1511 01:02:47,414 --> 01:02:49,049 I don't care. 1512 01:02:49,115 --> 01:02:52,052 What if... what if Dad is wrong? 1513 01:02:52,118 --> 01:02:54,887 Maybe it'll be another six months before it gets real bad, 1514 01:02:54,953 --> 01:02:55,821 maybe a year. 1515 01:02:55,921 --> 01:02:56,589 He's a fucking doctor. 1516 01:02:56,723 --> 01:02:57,757 He knows what he's doing. 1517 01:02:57,823 --> 01:02:58,591 It doesn't matter. 1518 01:02:58,658 --> 01:03:00,325 Doctors are wrong all the time. 1519 01:03:00,425 --> 01:03:02,728 Mom knows what she wants, and he knows how to do it. 1520 01:03:02,795 --> 01:03:03,261 OK? 1521 01:03:03,394 --> 01:03:04,128 That's enough. 1522 01:03:04,262 --> 01:03:06,263 I want to know her. 1523 01:03:06,396 --> 01:03:08,432 I want her to know me! 1524 01:03:08,566 --> 01:03:09,767 Don't you get that? 1525 01:03:09,900 --> 01:03:11,668 I need more time. 1526 01:03:11,768 --> 01:03:16,072 So do I. But this is Mom's decision. 1527 01:03:16,138 --> 01:03:16,839 It's her life. 1528 01:03:16,939 --> 01:03:19,775 It's her death. 1529 01:03:22,110 --> 01:03:23,778 I'm sorry you're sick. 1530 01:03:23,911 --> 01:03:25,613 I'm not sick! 1531 01:03:26,513 --> 01:03:27,481 Yes, you are. 1532 01:03:27,615 --> 01:03:28,783 OK. 1533 01:03:28,849 --> 01:03:29,616 What are you doing? 1534 01:03:29,750 --> 01:03:31,117 Don't go through my shit. 1535 01:03:31,250 --> 01:03:33,152 Xanax, Serax... 1536 01:03:33,286 --> 01:03:34,621 Don't touch my shit! 1537 01:03:34,688 --> 01:03:35,621 Lithium. 1538 01:03:35,755 --> 01:03:36,955 You know who they give this stuff to? 1539 01:03:37,089 --> 01:03:39,324 They give it to sick people. 1540 01:03:39,458 --> 01:03:40,626 I'm not sick. 1541 01:03:40,760 --> 01:03:42,126 They just keep things in check. 1542 01:03:42,259 --> 01:03:43,327 I'm OK when I take them. 1543 01:03:43,461 --> 01:03:44,796 But your brain chemistry is fucked, 1544 01:03:44,962 --> 01:03:46,464 and you can't trust your emotions, so shut 1545 01:03:46,530 --> 01:03:49,532 the fuck up from now on and you just let 1546 01:03:49,633 --> 01:03:51,368 her do what she wants to do. 1547 01:03:54,303 --> 01:03:54,838 Look at me. 1548 01:03:58,140 --> 01:03:58,842 Look at me. 1549 01:04:07,381 --> 01:04:11,884 I am sorry that I've not been there for you. 1550 01:04:14,954 --> 01:04:16,889 I will be better, I... 1551 01:04:16,989 --> 01:04:19,190 I... I promise. 1552 01:04:19,324 --> 01:04:21,660 I will be better. 1553 01:04:21,794 --> 01:04:27,799 But this is Mom's decision, and that is how it's going to be. 1554 01:04:30,900 --> 01:04:31,501 OK? 1555 01:04:45,346 --> 01:04:46,715 She understands. 1556 01:04:53,887 --> 01:05:02,694 Chris, thanks. 1557 01:05:02,761 --> 01:05:03,194 Yeah. 1558 01:06:19,925 --> 01:06:20,559 Hey. 1559 01:06:28,432 --> 01:06:32,301 Ah, what are you doing? 1560 01:06:32,368 --> 01:06:35,103 Looking at photos. 1561 01:06:35,170 --> 01:06:36,939 Uh-huh. 1562 01:06:37,072 --> 01:06:37,607 Uh... 1563 01:06:44,011 --> 01:06:44,980 Here we are. 1564 01:06:45,112 --> 01:06:46,280 Mexico. 1565 01:06:46,347 --> 01:06:48,181 Me, Dad, Mom, and Liz. 1566 01:06:52,285 --> 01:06:53,520 San Francisco. 1567 01:06:53,620 --> 01:06:59,123 And me, Dad, Mom, and Liz. 1568 01:06:59,190 --> 01:07:00,024 Hiking in Banff. 1569 01:07:03,127 --> 01:07:06,162 And um, London. 1570 01:07:08,766 --> 01:07:15,471 Me, Anna, Dad, Mom, and Liz. 1571 01:07:15,539 --> 01:07:18,473 Her best friend. 1572 01:07:18,541 --> 01:07:19,140 Yeah. 1573 01:07:19,207 --> 01:07:19,875 Right. 1574 01:07:19,975 --> 01:07:24,311 And his lover. 1575 01:07:25,178 --> 01:07:25,813 No. 1576 01:07:25,947 --> 01:07:26,446 Something. 1577 01:07:26,514 --> 01:07:27,147 No. 1578 01:07:27,281 --> 01:07:27,982 No. 1579 01:07:28,048 --> 01:07:29,315 I mean... 1580 01:07:29,448 --> 01:07:32,819 Mom told me years ago that Dad and Liz had dated, you know, 1581 01:07:32,886 --> 01:07:35,888 in college, before Mom even knew him. 1582 01:07:35,988 --> 01:07:41,726 I never thought, just never put two and two together. 1583 01:07:41,826 --> 01:07:46,230 And then last night... 1584 01:07:46,330 --> 01:07:46,898 Yeah? 1585 01:07:46,997 --> 01:07:47,565 What? 1586 01:07:47,665 --> 01:07:52,636 I saw them kissing. 1587 01:07:52,703 --> 01:07:56,806 But like, but like, for real. 1588 01:07:56,873 --> 01:07:59,908 No, they were probably just... 1589 01:08:00,008 --> 01:08:00,976 What? 1590 01:08:01,043 --> 01:08:02,310 Just... they were... they were probably 1591 01:08:02,376 --> 01:08:03,979 just comforting each other. 1592 01:08:04,046 --> 01:08:04,513 I don't know. 1593 01:08:04,646 --> 01:08:05,211 I don't know. 1594 01:08:05,345 --> 01:08:06,514 No. 1595 01:08:06,581 --> 01:08:08,248 What if... what if he's in love with her? 1596 01:08:08,348 --> 01:08:09,584 What if he always was? 1597 01:08:09,684 --> 01:08:11,183 I... I don't think that that's something that... 1598 01:08:11,317 --> 01:08:13,520 I mean, wouldn't that cloud his judgment? 1599 01:08:13,587 --> 01:08:15,989 OK, you're really tired, honey. 1600 01:08:16,056 --> 01:08:17,488 I'm not fucking tired, Michael. 1601 01:08:17,556 --> 01:08:18,524 You... 1602 01:08:18,591 --> 01:08:19,490 What do you think I should do? 1603 01:08:19,558 --> 01:08:20,726 I think you should sleep. 1604 01:08:20,859 --> 01:08:21,727 But should I tell Mom? 1605 01:08:21,860 --> 01:08:23,061 Should I... should I tell... 1606 01:08:23,193 --> 01:08:24,028 No... 1607 01:08:24,161 --> 01:08:25,395 Should I tell them both that I will 1608 01:08:25,530 --> 01:08:26,598 not support this after all? 1609 01:08:26,698 --> 01:08:28,098 No, your mom has made her decision. 1610 01:08:28,198 --> 01:08:29,365 But what do you think? 1611 01:08:29,499 --> 01:08:31,367 Well, Lily's been very clear from the very beginning 1612 01:08:31,501 --> 01:08:32,234 that what she... 1613 01:08:32,368 --> 01:08:34,370 What do you think! 1614 01:08:34,437 --> 01:08:37,773 What do you... what do you think about... about all of it? 1615 01:08:37,873 --> 01:08:38,874 You. 1616 01:08:39,008 --> 01:08:41,342 Right here, right now, what did you think? 1617 01:08:45,412 --> 01:08:46,848 I think this is a really difficult 1618 01:08:46,914 --> 01:08:49,115 decision, and that the family... 1619 01:08:49,215 --> 01:08:50,551 Do you think anything? 1620 01:08:50,618 --> 01:08:52,553 Do you... do you feel? 1621 01:08:52,686 --> 01:08:53,519 Yeah, I feel things! 1622 01:08:53,586 --> 01:08:55,555 Of course I do! 1623 01:08:55,622 --> 01:08:57,122 What? 1624 01:08:57,222 --> 01:09:00,257 It's impossible to get any kind of reaction from you. 1625 01:09:00,391 --> 01:09:02,894 If... if I... if I threw this wine in your face, 1626 01:09:03,028 --> 01:09:05,096 you'd just tell me what district the grapes were from. 1627 01:09:05,228 --> 01:09:06,063 Oh, that is not true. 1628 01:09:06,196 --> 01:09:06,764 I think I'm... 1629 01:09:09,934 --> 01:09:11,300 God. 1630 01:09:11,400 --> 01:09:12,134 Ugh! 1631 01:09:12,234 --> 01:09:13,402 I... I'm so sorry. 1632 01:09:13,536 --> 01:09:14,938 I... oh my god. 1633 01:09:15,071 --> 01:09:15,805 Honey. 1634 01:09:15,905 --> 01:09:16,305 Honey. 1635 01:09:19,173 --> 01:09:19,575 Honey, here. 1636 01:09:19,708 --> 01:09:20,241 You wanna... 1637 01:09:55,470 --> 01:09:57,406 Will you close the blinds? 1638 01:10:00,909 --> 01:10:04,579 You want to sleep some more? 1639 01:10:04,646 --> 01:10:08,783 I want to wake up again, one more time. 1640 01:11:31,485 --> 01:11:33,352 And I just woke up one morning, 1641 01:11:33,419 --> 01:11:35,488 and I couldn't remember what healthy felt like. 1642 01:11:38,356 --> 01:11:39,725 It didn't scare me. 1643 01:11:42,326 --> 01:11:42,894 It was a relief. 1644 01:11:46,197 --> 01:11:51,267 So I canceled my plans with Chris that night. 1645 01:11:51,367 --> 01:11:53,368 I took a shower. 1646 01:11:53,503 --> 01:11:54,402 Isn't that weird? 1647 01:11:56,939 --> 01:11:58,574 I watched the happy people on TV, 1648 01:11:58,707 --> 01:12:04,378 and I ate a handful of pills and drunk a mug of vodka, 1649 01:12:04,513 --> 01:12:05,212 passed out. 1650 01:12:08,448 --> 01:12:10,350 Then Chris came over anyway. 1651 01:12:10,416 --> 01:12:11,785 She wanted to surprise me. 1652 01:12:14,353 --> 01:12:15,555 She called 9-1-1. 1653 01:12:15,688 --> 01:12:18,791 The ambulance took me to the hospital and pumped me out. 1654 01:12:21,527 --> 01:12:23,094 I stayed three weeks. 1655 01:12:26,030 --> 01:12:28,599 They gave me medicine, and I still take it, 1656 01:12:28,732 --> 01:12:29,566 and I'll keep taking it. 1657 01:12:29,699 --> 01:12:30,867 And that's OK. 1658 01:12:33,870 --> 01:12:35,070 Why didn't you tell me? 1659 01:12:37,807 --> 01:12:39,708 You always told us to be strong. 1660 01:12:39,775 --> 01:12:42,076 Oh, Jesus. 1661 01:12:42,210 --> 01:12:42,877 Be free. 1662 01:12:45,445 --> 01:12:46,780 I didn't want to be free. 1663 01:12:46,914 --> 01:12:49,116 I just wanted to feel like me. 1664 01:12:49,249 --> 01:12:50,484 I am so sorry. 1665 01:12:50,584 --> 01:12:53,252 I am so, so sorry. 1666 01:12:53,385 --> 01:12:54,319 So sorry, baby. 1667 01:12:54,419 --> 01:12:57,089 And you had just found out you were sick. 1668 01:12:57,223 --> 01:12:58,824 I didn't want you to worry about it. 1669 01:12:58,924 --> 01:13:00,091 Oh my god. 1670 01:13:00,158 --> 01:13:02,093 You have no idea how happy it would 1671 01:13:02,160 --> 01:13:04,062 have made me to worry about it. 1672 01:13:04,129 --> 01:13:06,730 Let me worry about you. 1673 01:13:06,797 --> 01:13:07,498 Oh. 1674 01:13:07,598 --> 01:13:10,267 I'm so sorry. 1675 01:13:10,333 --> 01:13:11,601 I love you. 1676 01:13:11,734 --> 01:13:14,604 I love you, sweet girl. 1677 01:13:14,737 --> 01:13:15,805 I'm sorry. 1678 01:13:33,620 --> 01:13:34,187 Ha-ha! 1679 01:13:43,094 --> 01:13:45,163 Do you... can I... 1680 01:13:45,296 --> 01:13:46,964 I got it. 1681 01:13:47,097 --> 01:13:48,599 Do you want me to... 1682 01:13:48,665 --> 01:13:50,601 No, sweetie, I'm fine. 1683 01:13:50,667 --> 01:13:51,602 I got it. 1684 01:13:58,640 --> 01:14:01,142 Mom? 1685 01:14:01,276 --> 01:14:02,544 OK? 1686 01:14:02,644 --> 01:14:13,553 Good morning. 1687 01:14:17,489 --> 01:14:18,323 - Hey. - Hi. 1688 01:14:18,457 --> 01:14:19,157 - Morning. - Hey. 1689 01:14:19,224 --> 01:14:19,625 Morning. 1690 01:14:19,691 --> 01:14:20,292 Hi. 1691 01:14:20,359 --> 01:14:21,392 Morning. 1692 01:14:21,493 --> 01:14:21,960 OK. 1693 01:14:22,027 --> 01:14:25,363 Oh. 1694 01:14:25,496 --> 01:14:25,830 OK. 1695 01:14:28,165 --> 01:14:28,665 OK. 1696 01:14:28,798 --> 01:14:32,369 So today. 1697 01:14:32,502 --> 01:14:33,703 Today. 1698 01:14:33,837 --> 01:14:41,509 Um, can we all try to just behave as normally as possible? 1699 01:14:41,576 --> 01:14:47,848 Just read the Sunday paper and nap, play the stock market, 1700 01:14:47,981 --> 01:14:49,182 write a play. 1701 01:14:49,249 --> 01:14:53,886 make a match stick model of the... 1702 01:14:54,020 --> 01:14:55,488 of the Empire State Building. 1703 01:14:55,554 --> 01:14:57,723 Just a normal Sunday. 1704 01:14:57,857 --> 01:15:05,696 I need to have a normal, lazy Sunday. 1705 01:15:09,767 --> 01:15:10,566 I need that from you. 1706 01:15:16,239 --> 01:15:16,672 OK? 1707 01:15:20,776 --> 01:15:21,576 - Yeah. - OK. 1708 01:15:21,710 --> 01:15:22,710 - Got it. - OK. 1709 01:15:22,777 --> 01:15:23,611 - You got it. - All right. 1710 01:15:23,711 --> 01:15:24,512 Great. 1711 01:15:24,578 --> 01:15:25,513 OK. 1712 01:15:25,579 --> 01:15:26,180 Good. 1713 01:15:30,016 --> 01:15:34,787 Um, no juice? 1714 01:15:34,887 --> 01:15:36,221 Jennifer? 1715 01:15:36,355 --> 01:15:36,789 Uh, no. 1716 01:15:36,889 --> 01:15:37,424 I'm not thirsty. 1717 01:15:40,259 --> 01:15:41,559 Shall I make some coffee? 1718 01:15:41,693 --> 01:15:42,226 No. 1719 01:15:48,131 --> 01:15:49,733 Jonathan, why don't you pass the juice? 1720 01:15:49,866 --> 01:15:50,435 Sure. 1721 01:15:57,606 --> 01:15:58,540 - Anna? - Thank you. 1722 01:15:58,606 --> 01:15:59,240 Hmm? 1723 01:15:59,307 --> 01:16:01,576 What? 1724 01:16:01,643 --> 01:16:05,447 Um, would you come with me for a minute? 1725 01:16:05,579 --> 01:16:06,146 OK. 1726 01:16:13,586 --> 01:16:17,089 Remember when you were about eight years old, it was summer. 1727 01:16:17,222 --> 01:16:19,791 And you... you came rushing into the house, 1728 01:16:19,925 --> 01:16:22,994 and... and you said that you had seen Dad and Elisabeth 1729 01:16:23,094 --> 01:16:24,829 kissing in the woods. 1730 01:16:24,929 --> 01:16:26,797 And everybody just laughed at you. 1731 01:16:26,931 --> 01:16:27,631 Do you remember? 1732 01:16:27,765 --> 01:16:28,732 Yeah, I remember. 1733 01:16:28,798 --> 01:16:30,100 And people said you were crazy. 1734 01:16:30,233 --> 01:16:33,770 And... and... and... and people said you were bad. 1735 01:16:33,903 --> 01:16:34,636 Yes. 1736 01:16:34,770 --> 01:16:35,404 You said I was bad. 1737 01:16:38,173 --> 01:16:40,975 Well, I think you were... 1738 01:16:41,109 --> 01:16:46,447 I... I think Dad and Liz are lovers. 1739 01:16:49,450 --> 01:16:50,083 What? 1740 01:16:53,953 --> 01:16:57,790 Last night, I saw them together. 1741 01:16:57,923 --> 01:16:59,090 Think about it. 1742 01:16:59,157 --> 01:17:00,792 Every family vacation, she's been there. 1743 01:17:00,859 --> 01:17:03,628 Every important occasion, it's always been Mom, Dad, and Liz. 1744 01:17:03,762 --> 01:17:04,628 Why? 1745 01:17:04,695 --> 01:17:05,796 I mean, that's not normal. 1746 01:17:05,929 --> 01:17:06,964 We've grown up thinking that's normal. 1747 01:17:07,031 --> 01:17:08,032 That is not normal. 1748 01:17:10,600 --> 01:17:12,335 Well, do we tell Mom? 1749 01:17:12,469 --> 01:17:13,169 No. 1750 01:17:13,302 --> 01:17:13,636 No. 1751 01:17:13,770 --> 01:17:14,438 We can't. 1752 01:17:14,505 --> 01:17:15,772 We can't. 1753 01:17:15,838 --> 01:17:19,442 Can we? 1754 01:17:19,509 --> 01:17:22,643 Well fuck, I don't know anything anymore. 1755 01:17:22,777 --> 01:17:25,980 Look, if he's with Liz, he can't make a rational decision. 1756 01:17:26,047 --> 01:17:28,282 What if she's manipulating him? 1757 01:17:28,348 --> 01:17:30,050 We've known Liz all our lives. 1758 01:17:30,150 --> 01:17:31,618 I don't believe that's her. 1759 01:17:31,684 --> 01:17:34,620 I'm not saying she's doing it deliberately, but... but... 1760 01:17:34,686 --> 01:17:36,489 OK. 1761 01:17:36,555 --> 01:17:39,492 We tell Mom we've changed our minds, 1762 01:17:39,591 --> 01:17:43,227 and we're not going along with this anymore. 1763 01:17:43,327 --> 01:17:43,694 Yes? 1764 01:17:49,166 --> 01:17:51,835 Jonathan, go upstairs, please. 1765 01:17:51,902 --> 01:17:52,536 Why? 1766 01:17:52,668 --> 01:17:53,235 Jennifer... 1767 01:17:53,335 --> 01:17:54,003 Don't ask questions. 1768 01:17:54,136 --> 01:17:55,505 Just go upstairs 1769 01:17:55,638 --> 01:17:56,739 Jonathan? 1770 01:17:56,839 --> 01:17:58,007 I want you to go upstairs now. 1771 01:17:58,140 --> 01:17:59,340 Too bad. 1772 01:17:59,408 --> 01:18:00,509 - I don't want you to hear this. - Hear what? 1773 01:18:00,642 --> 01:18:01,976 - I'm part of this, Mom. - He's right. 1774 01:18:02,043 --> 01:18:02,811 He should be here. 1775 01:18:02,877 --> 01:18:03,678 What's going on? 1776 01:18:03,745 --> 01:18:05,012 Can we just see... 1777 01:18:05,079 --> 01:18:07,014 see this through with a bit of ordinary grace? 1778 01:18:07,081 --> 01:18:08,416 Ordinary grace, you fucking hypocrite? 1779 01:18:08,516 --> 01:18:09,883 - All right, sit down, Jennifer. - Whoa. 1780 01:18:10,017 --> 01:18:11,184 OK. No. 1781 01:18:11,317 --> 01:18:12,351 Please don't... don't tell me to sit down, OK? 1782 01:18:12,419 --> 01:18:12,985 I won't. 1783 01:18:13,052 --> 01:18:13,719 I won't sit down. 1784 01:18:13,853 --> 01:18:15,088 I won't. 1785 01:18:15,188 --> 01:18:17,823 This... this is sick. 1786 01:18:17,889 --> 01:18:21,561 Jennifer, whatever it is you want to say, do us all a favor 1787 01:18:21,693 --> 01:18:22,561 and don't say it. 1788 01:18:22,693 --> 01:18:23,861 Everything's being said. 1789 01:18:23,994 --> 01:18:24,995 - Oh, not quite everything. - Don't do this, Jennifer. 1790 01:18:25,062 --> 01:18:26,097 Jonathan, stop. 1791 01:18:26,197 --> 01:18:27,364 What the hell is going on here? 1792 01:18:27,499 --> 01:18:28,698 Maybe you shouldn't go through with it. 1793 01:18:28,832 --> 01:18:30,934 Maybe you don't have all the information you need 1794 01:18:31,034 --> 01:18:32,836 to make an informed decision. 1795 01:18:32,902 --> 01:18:33,770 What are you talking about? 1796 01:18:37,606 --> 01:18:39,741 Dad? 1797 01:18:39,875 --> 01:18:40,442 What? 1798 01:18:40,542 --> 01:18:41,709 Dad. 1799 01:18:41,843 --> 01:18:42,544 What? 1800 01:18:42,610 --> 01:18:45,547 Tell her. 1801 01:18:45,613 --> 01:18:46,880 OK. 1802 01:18:47,013 --> 01:18:49,216 OK. 1803 01:18:49,349 --> 01:18:51,885 We're not going to let this happen. 1804 01:18:52,018 --> 01:18:53,453 It's not right. 1805 01:18:53,553 --> 01:18:56,423 N... Jennifer, we have gone over and over this for months, 1806 01:18:56,556 --> 01:18:57,857 and we came to the conclu... 1807 01:18:57,923 --> 01:19:01,192 as a family, we agreed that if this is what I want... 1808 01:19:01,259 --> 01:19:03,128 But I don't think you know what you want. 1809 01:19:03,228 --> 01:19:04,294 How dare you? 1810 01:19:04,395 --> 01:19:06,964 We got... we got behind this on the basis 1811 01:19:07,064 --> 01:19:07,798 of a lot of assumptions. 1812 01:19:07,898 --> 01:19:08,866 Assumptions? 1813 01:19:08,932 --> 01:19:09,534 What... what... what assumptions? 1814 01:19:09,601 --> 01:19:10,567 OK. 1815 01:19:10,633 --> 01:19:12,235 Hey, hey, let her talk, Paul, please. 1816 01:19:12,301 --> 01:19:13,604 Please, we're... we're talking with Mom right now, OK? 1817 01:19:13,736 --> 01:19:14,438 Dad, not you. 1818 01:19:14,571 --> 01:19:14,937 Well, who's we? 1819 01:19:15,071 --> 01:19:15,771 We? 1820 01:19:15,905 --> 01:19:17,706 Anna and I agree. 1821 01:19:17,772 --> 01:19:20,443 Right? 1822 01:19:20,576 --> 01:19:20,942 Anna? 1823 01:19:21,076 --> 01:19:23,411 Anna. 1824 01:19:23,545 --> 01:19:27,248 Yeah, Jennifer and I agree. 1825 01:19:27,314 --> 01:19:29,115 I cannot... no. 1826 01:19:29,249 --> 01:19:30,584 I cannot back down from this. 1827 01:19:30,717 --> 01:19:31,452 No. 1828 01:19:31,585 --> 01:19:32,419 I... this... no. 1829 01:19:32,486 --> 01:19:34,154 Well... well... well, we... we can. 1830 01:19:34,253 --> 01:19:36,221 Jennifer, this is not what she needs right now. 1831 01:19:36,288 --> 01:19:36,922 You can shut up. 1832 01:19:36,989 --> 01:19:37,923 Oh Liz. 1833 01:19:37,990 --> 01:19:38,790 This is not your decision. 1834 01:19:38,924 --> 01:19:39,925 It's not yours either. 1835 01:19:39,992 --> 01:19:41,125 This is your mother's choice! 1836 01:19:41,259 --> 01:19:42,226 Is it really? 1837 01:19:42,293 --> 01:19:44,328 Or has she been helped along? 1838 01:19:44,429 --> 01:19:45,062 Huh? 1839 01:19:45,129 --> 01:19:45,963 What are you saying? 1840 01:19:46,097 --> 01:19:47,130 Look, I choose. 1841 01:19:47,264 --> 01:19:47,998 I choose. 1842 01:19:48,098 --> 01:19:49,266 Look at me. 1843 01:19:49,332 --> 01:19:51,234 I choose not to be locked in a body 1844 01:19:51,301 --> 01:19:53,936 that cannot walk or talk or eat or drink 1845 01:19:54,003 --> 01:19:55,438 or even breathe on its own. 1846 01:19:55,505 --> 01:19:59,575 I am choosing not to be fed vanilla-fucking-flavored 1847 01:19:59,642 --> 01:20:01,644 protein drinks through a tube in my side. 1848 01:20:01,776 --> 01:20:02,777 I choose. 1849 01:20:02,844 --> 01:20:03,778 I choose. 1850 01:20:03,912 --> 01:20:05,112 I am choosing. 1851 01:20:05,245 --> 01:20:07,582 There are moral issues, OK? 1852 01:20:07,649 --> 01:20:08,949 Ethical issues. 1853 01:20:09,016 --> 01:20:16,188 Do not make my last act on this earth in defiance of you. 1854 01:20:16,288 --> 01:20:19,024 Please don't do that to us. 1855 01:20:19,124 --> 01:20:20,792 Jennifer, what's going on here? 1856 01:20:20,859 --> 01:20:22,793 I saw you last night. 1857 01:20:22,860 --> 01:20:23,662 You saw what? 1858 01:20:23,794 --> 01:20:25,129 Saw... what did you see? 1859 01:20:25,262 --> 01:20:26,931 What did she see? 1860 01:20:26,997 --> 01:20:28,532 You two. 1861 01:20:28,632 --> 01:20:29,999 What are you talk... saw what? 1862 01:20:30,133 --> 01:20:31,334 - What are you talking about? - Jennifer. 1863 01:20:31,468 --> 01:20:31,834 No. 1864 01:20:31,968 --> 01:20:32,769 No. 1865 01:20:32,835 --> 01:20:34,003 You don't get to speak. 1866 01:20:34,137 --> 01:20:35,471 No, no. 1867 01:20:35,605 --> 01:20:39,442 I really think it's my turn to speak. 1868 01:20:39,509 --> 01:20:43,478 You say I'm having some love affair with your father, right? 1869 01:20:43,612 --> 01:20:45,980 Well, you are, aren't you? 1870 01:20:47,981 --> 01:20:48,549 Aren't you? 1871 01:20:48,649 --> 01:20:50,717 Christ. 1872 01:20:50,817 --> 01:20:52,652 Jennifer, you know what? 1873 01:20:52,785 --> 01:20:55,955 You were always such a fucking prig. 1874 01:20:56,021 --> 01:20:58,524 Look how lucky you are. 1875 01:20:58,657 --> 01:21:01,226 A husband who adores you, an amazing kid, 1876 01:21:01,326 --> 01:21:05,162 and still you're always straightening 1877 01:21:05,295 --> 01:21:07,965 every picture in the room. 1878 01:21:08,031 --> 01:21:11,334 I never managed this, family. 1879 01:21:11,468 --> 01:21:16,204 Here's my family, the people I grew up with, 1880 01:21:16,338 --> 01:21:19,709 the people I loved and love. 1881 01:21:19,841 --> 01:21:21,544 Don't take that away. 1882 01:21:24,512 --> 01:21:25,714 Please don't take that away. 1883 01:21:31,217 --> 01:21:34,687 You didn't answer the question. 1884 01:21:34,753 --> 01:21:37,990 You didn't answer the question, Liz. 1885 01:21:40,992 --> 01:21:43,362 Answer, somebody. 1886 01:21:43,495 --> 01:21:46,664 Answer, or I'm going to call 9-1-1. 1887 01:21:46,731 --> 01:21:47,097 What? 1888 01:21:47,197 --> 01:21:48,064 What? 1889 01:21:48,198 --> 01:21:49,032 I'm not kidding. 1890 01:21:49,165 --> 01:21:50,534 I'll... I'll make the call. 1891 01:21:50,668 --> 01:21:51,201 Oh, good. 1892 01:21:51,268 --> 01:21:52,569 What will you say? 1893 01:21:52,702 --> 01:21:53,836 I'm going to say there's been a suicide attempt, 1894 01:21:53,902 --> 01:21:58,040 and that they need to come right away. 1895 01:21:58,172 --> 01:22:01,042 Answer me, somebody! 1896 01:22:01,175 --> 01:22:02,511 Do it. 1897 01:22:02,578 --> 01:22:03,545 Anna. 1898 01:22:03,679 --> 01:22:05,178 Honey, are you sure you want to do this? 1899 01:22:05,245 --> 01:22:05,846 Honey? 1900 01:22:05,912 --> 01:22:06,913 Jennifer. 1901 01:22:06,980 --> 01:22:08,115 Put... put the phone down. 1902 01:22:08,215 --> 01:22:10,550 Wait, wait, wait, wait. 1903 01:22:10,684 --> 01:22:12,386 Of course they're having an affair. 1904 01:22:19,291 --> 01:22:22,226 Of course they're having an affair. 1905 01:22:22,360 --> 01:22:23,728 I begged them to have an affair. 1906 01:22:23,794 --> 01:22:28,532 I implored them to have an affair. 1907 01:22:28,599 --> 01:22:30,800 What? 1908 01:22:30,900 --> 01:22:31,934 All our lives? 1909 01:22:32,068 --> 01:22:34,037 Oh, no, no, no, no. 1910 01:22:34,102 --> 01:22:36,406 Since I've been sick. 1911 01:22:36,472 --> 01:22:37,906 How can that be OK? 1912 01:22:38,040 --> 01:22:41,976 How could it be OK for my best friend and my husband 1913 01:22:42,076 --> 01:22:44,646 to love each other? 1914 01:22:44,746 --> 01:22:52,918 Don't you see that that makes a space so that I can do this? 1915 01:22:52,985 --> 01:22:55,287 Don't you see? 1916 01:22:55,422 --> 01:22:58,757 Love is everything. 1917 01:23:02,093 --> 01:23:03,094 Love is all there is. 1918 01:23:27,449 --> 01:23:28,649 Why didn't you tell us? 1919 01:23:28,782 --> 01:23:31,951 Would you have approved? 1920 01:23:37,289 --> 01:23:40,792 I'm sorry. 1921 01:23:40,858 --> 01:23:41,793 It's OK. 1922 01:23:45,262 --> 01:23:46,797 OK, now I'm scared. 1923 01:23:46,963 --> 01:23:50,200 Of course you are. 1924 01:23:50,300 --> 01:23:51,435 Me too. 1925 01:23:57,272 --> 01:24:01,943 Look, maybe you all should... 1926 01:24:06,814 --> 01:24:07,648 it's time. 1927 01:24:10,450 --> 01:24:11,050 Now? 1928 01:24:11,150 --> 01:24:13,453 Now. 1929 01:24:13,520 --> 01:24:16,988 I'm... I'm done. 1930 01:24:17,055 --> 01:24:17,823 I can feel it. 1931 01:24:21,861 --> 01:24:25,497 I know it's coming toward me, and I do not want it. 1932 01:24:30,133 --> 01:24:33,903 So if it's OK with you guys. 1933 01:24:38,841 --> 01:24:41,008 Jen? 1934 01:24:41,142 --> 01:24:41,676 Yeah. 1935 01:25:09,867 --> 01:25:10,500 Anna? 1936 01:25:16,070 --> 01:25:16,672 OK. 1937 01:25:20,443 --> 01:25:24,278 But I want to be with you when you die. 1938 01:25:24,379 --> 01:25:25,245 Anna. 1939 01:25:25,380 --> 01:25:26,180 I don't... I don't think... 1940 01:25:26,246 --> 01:25:27,080 Are you strong enough? 1941 01:25:30,451 --> 01:25:32,251 Yeah. 1942 01:25:32,386 --> 01:25:33,554 Yeah, she is. 1943 01:25:36,622 --> 01:25:37,557 I'm with Anna. 1944 01:28:38,341 --> 01:28:41,009 Just don't let me die with my mouth open. 1945 01:28:41,076 --> 01:28:42,377 Oh, Mom. 1946 01:29:12,435 --> 01:29:14,371 Now I'm frightened. 1947 01:29:17,439 --> 01:29:20,376 Don't be frightened. 1948 01:29:20,442 --> 01:29:21,943 Where am I going? 1949 01:29:25,413 --> 01:29:27,315 You tell me, kiddo. 1950 01:32:59,825 --> 01:33:01,326 I 1951 01:33:01,426 --> 01:33:12,068 know you belong to somebody new, but tonight, you belong to me. 1952 01:33:15,904 --> 01:33:17,072 What's next? 1953 01:33:17,139 --> 01:33:18,308 Wait down... 1954 01:33:18,440 --> 01:33:19,107 no. 1955 01:33:19,242 --> 01:33:20,609 Although... 1956 01:33:20,676 --> 01:33:24,111 Although, although we're apart, 1957 01:33:24,178 --> 01:33:27,981 you're a part of my heart. 1958 01:33:28,114 --> 01:33:32,986 But tonight, you belong to me. 1959 01:33:33,119 --> 01:33:34,620 Just to little old me. 1960 01:33:34,753 --> 01:33:36,155 ...old me. 1961 01:33:36,289 --> 01:33:38,757 Wait down, wait down by the stream... 1962 01:33:38,824 --> 01:33:39,624 Stream. 1963 01:33:41,293 --> 01:33:44,128 How very, very, very sweet it will seem 1964 01:33:44,263 --> 01:33:52,368 once more just to dream in the silvery moonlight, my honey, 1965 01:33:52,468 --> 01:34:00,542 I know, I know, with the dawn that you will be gone, 1966 01:34:00,642 --> 01:34:05,347 but tonight, you belong to me. 1967 01:34:05,479 --> 01:34:07,481 Just to little ol' me.