(calm piano music) 2 2
-: Sometimes we don't record YouTube videos 3 3
because we're a little bit insecure 4 4
and we worry what people will think of us. 5 5
But you know what dude? 6 6
Screw it. 7 7
You be you. 8 8
The second you start caring 9 9
what other people think of you, you know, 10 10
is the second that you'll always be their prisoner 11 11
and you'll never be happy. 12 12
You'll never be happy then. 13 13
You know, I'll never get a change ever again 14 14
to be in front of this beautiful church here on my vacation. 15 15
And I just wanna record and be me. 16 16
You do you. 17 17
You do you, and again, 18 18
don't ever care what anybody thinks of you. 19 19
And before I let you go, 20 20
there's a chart that I love. 21 21
And you're gonna have to visualize this with me, please. 22 22
So on the x-axis is your age. 23 23
And on the y-asix is give a damn. 24 24
And so x-axis, y-axis, okay. 25 25
You got age, give a damn. 26 26
When you're younger, you're right here, okay? 27 27
You don't care what people think of you. 28 28
You don't give a damn. 29 29
When you're older, you don't give a damn either. 30 30
Old people don't have confidence issues. 31 31
In the middle, you're up here. 32 32
You give a damn what people think of you. 33 33
And I call that the triangle of despair. 34 34
And you gotta eliminate that from your life 35 35
because that leads to self sabotage 36 36
and limits you from being the perfect version of yourself. 37 37
It limits you from reaching your whole potential. 38 38
I don't wanna die here. 39 39
So, and I think that the best entrepreneurs 40 40
in the world live at that very low level. 41 41
You know, they don't care what people think of them. 42 42
A lot of them have hired stylists 43 43
to make themselves look better after they become wealthy, 44 44
whatever, but they just don't care. 45 45
They don't care. 46 46
Like Steve Jobs, he used to actually 47 47
show up to work without showering. 48 48
Now, please shower when you go to work. 49 49
But he didn't care. 50 50
They made him work the night shift at Atari, 51 51
or Activision, wherever it was. 52 52
But he never cared. 53 53
And the most successful entrepreneurs don't care either. 54 54
And sometimes the most successful YouTubers 55 55
don't give a damn either. 56 56
You know, they don't care what they look like. 57 57
You know, people love it when you're just yourself. 58 58
You know, you don't have to try to be somebody else. 59 59
And you shouldn't really care 60 60
what people think of you anyway. 61 61
It's so liberating to live your life on your own terms 62 62
and not really care what other people think of you anyway. 63 63
So you do you.