1 1 00:00:00,158 --> 00:00:03,075 (calm piano music) 2 2 00:00:05,802 --> 00:00:08,220 line:15% Sometimes we don't record YouTube videos 3 3 00:00:08,220 --> 00:00:09,750 line:15% because we're a little bit insecure 4 4 00:00:09,750 --> 00:00:13,300 line:15% and we worry what people will think of us. 5 5 00:00:13,300 --> 00:00:14,250 line:15% But you know what dude? 6 6 00:00:14,250 --> 00:00:15,130 line:15% Screw it. 7 7 00:00:15,130 --> 00:00:16,080 line:15% You be you. 8 8 00:00:16,080 --> 00:00:17,080 line:15% The second you start caring 9 9 00:00:17,080 --> 00:00:18,900 line:15% what other people think of you, you know, 10 10 00:00:18,900 --> 00:00:21,010 line:15% is the second that you'll always be their prisoner 11 11 00:00:21,010 --> 00:00:21,960 line:15% and you'll never be happy. 12 12 00:00:21,960 --> 00:00:23,430 line:15% You'll never be happy then. 13 13 00:00:23,430 --> 00:00:25,630 line:15% You know, I'll never get a change ever again 14 14 00:00:25,630 --> 00:00:29,690 line:15% to be in front of this beautiful church here on my vacation. 15 15 00:00:29,690 --> 00:00:32,442 line:15% And I just wanna record and be me. 16 16 00:00:32,442 --> 00:00:34,330 line:15% You do you. 17 17 00:00:34,330 --> 00:00:35,510 line:15% You do you, and again, 18 18 00:00:35,510 --> 00:00:37,510 line:15% don't ever care what anybody thinks of you. 19 19 00:00:37,510 --> 00:00:39,218 line:15% And before I let you go, 20 20 00:00:39,218 --> 00:00:41,040 line:15% there's a chart that I love. 21 21 00:00:41,040 --> 00:00:42,538 line:15% And you're gonna have to visualize this with me, please. 22 22 00:00:42,538 --> 00:00:47,538 line:15% So on the x-axis is your age. 23 23 00:00:49,280 --> 00:00:51,860 line:15% And on the y-asix is give a damn. 24 24 00:00:51,860 --> 00:00:53,393 line:15% And so x-axis, y-axis, okay. 25 25 00:00:53,393 --> 00:00:55,300 line:15% You got age, give a damn. 26 26 00:00:55,300 --> 00:00:57,750 line:15% When you're younger, you're right here, okay? 27 27 00:00:57,750 --> 00:00:58,847 line:15% You don't care what people think of you. 28 28 00:00:58,847 --> 00:01:00,210 line:15% You don't give a damn. 29 29 00:01:00,210 --> 00:01:02,220 line:15% When you're older, you don't give a damn either. 30 30 00:01:02,220 --> 00:01:04,430 line:15% Old people don't have confidence issues. 31 31 00:01:04,430 --> 00:01:06,320 line:15% In the middle, you're up here. 32 32 00:01:06,320 --> 00:01:08,660 line:15% You give a damn what people think of you. 33 33 00:01:08,660 --> 00:01:11,520 line:15% And I call that the triangle of despair. 34 34 00:01:11,520 --> 00:01:14,400 line:15% And you gotta eliminate that from your life 35 35 00:01:14,400 --> 00:01:16,310 line:15% because that leads to self sabotage 36 36 00:01:16,310 --> 00:01:20,320 line:15% and limits you from being the perfect version of yourself. 37 37 00:01:20,320 --> 00:01:23,040 line:15% It limits you from reaching your whole potential. 38 38 00:01:23,040 --> 00:01:24,190 line:15% I don't wanna die here. 39 39 00:01:25,490 --> 00:01:27,520 line:15% So, and I think that the best entrepreneurs 40 40 00:01:27,520 --> 00:01:29,680 line:15% in the world live at that very low level. 41 41 00:01:29,680 --> 00:01:31,360 line:15% You know, they don't care what people think of them. 42 42 00:01:31,360 --> 00:01:33,610 line:15% A lot of them have hired stylists 43 43 00:01:33,610 --> 00:01:35,790 line:15% to make themselves look better after they become wealthy, 44 44 00:01:35,790 --> 00:01:37,710 line:15% whatever, but they just don't care. 45 45 00:01:37,710 --> 00:01:38,543 line:15% They don't care. 46 46 00:01:38,543 --> 00:01:40,991 line:15% Like Steve Jobs, he used to actually 47 47 00:01:40,991 --> 00:01:43,440 line:15% show up to work without showering. 48 48 00:01:43,440 --> 00:01:45,192 line:15% Now, please shower when you go to work. 49 49 00:01:45,192 --> 00:01:46,720 line:15% But he didn't care. 50 50 00:01:46,720 --> 00:01:48,830 line:15% They made him work the night shift at Atari, 51 51 00:01:48,830 --> 00:01:50,750 line:15% or Activision, wherever it was. 52 52 00:01:50,750 --> 00:01:51,920 line:15% But he never cared. 53 53 00:01:51,920 --> 00:01:54,130 line:15% And the most successful entrepreneurs don't care either. 54 54 00:01:54,130 --> 00:01:55,960 line:15% And sometimes the most successful YouTubers 55 55 00:01:55,960 --> 00:01:58,000 line:15% don't give a damn either. 56 56 00:01:58,000 --> 00:02:00,130 line:15% You know, they don't care what they look like. 57 57 00:02:00,130 --> 00:02:04,000 line:15% You know, people love it when you're just yourself. 58 58 00:02:04,000 --> 00:02:05,831 line:15% You know, you don't have to try to be somebody else. 59 59 00:02:05,831 --> 00:02:07,410 line:15% And you shouldn't really care 60 60 00:02:07,410 --> 00:02:09,240 line:15% what people think of you anyway. 61 61 00:02:09,240 --> 00:02:11,890 line:15% It's so liberating to live your life on your own terms 62 62 00:02:11,890 --> 00:02:14,413 line:15% and not really care what other people think of you anyway. 63 63 00:02:14,413 --> 00:02:16,607 line:15% So you do you.